Chapter 519 Arya's wedding date fixed (additional request for tickets)
Sister-in-law Li had half a day off every week, and returned to Tianjia Village at noon on Sunday, and then talked about it with her aunt and Li Guihua.
After hearing this, the eldest aunt said disdainfully: "For such a person, what kind of books should you teach? You don't have to teach other people's children badly."
Li Guihua also said with some emotion: "It's also fortunate that Li's natal family is capable. Even if her in-laws don't help at all, she can still live a good life. Otherwise, she will definitely suffer."
It is also possible to ask my eldest nephew and daughter-in-law to help take care of the children if the conditions are good. If the conditions are not good, I will be exhausted if I have to go to work and take care of the children. Looking back now, raising a few children was really hard enough.
He does not mean that. Sister-in-law Li felt that her family still had to make good money, and that if her daughter met a bad husband's family, their parents could also be her backing.
Li Guihua came home and saw Tian Dalin chopping firewood. She scolded: "Before Da Ya went to Sijiu City, Qian told Wan to tell you not to do heavy work. You have fallen on deaf ears."
Tian Dalin wiped the sweat from his forehead, and said with a smile: "This firewood is not thick, and it doesn't take much effort to break it with a knife. Osmanthus fragrans, we can't leave all the rough work in our house to Erya and Lock. It's also hard work."
Erya will go home on Sunday, and Suo Zhu will come with her. Both of them are industrious. When they return home, they either go to chop firewood or plow the land to grow vegetables or carry water and chop firewood.
Li Guihua said: "They are still young, it's okay to do more and suffer a little bit. You are old and your health is not good, so don't be brave."
Tian Dalin didn't argue with her, wiped off his sweat, went into the room and sat down to rest. Li Guihua took a cattail fan and sat beside him to fan him.
At this time, a matchmaker came to the door. This matchmaker was entrusted by Grandma Nie, and she came to say that she hoped to fix the wedding date of Erya and Suozhu. It turned out that Grandma Nie fell ill again last month and passed out halfway through. After recovering from the illness, I hope that Erya and Suozhu will get married soon, so that she can rest assured if she doesn't wake up.
The matchmaker said: "The old sister-in-law means that I hope to set the wedding date in September and October."
Tian Dalin refused without even thinking about it, and said: "The old lady wants to let Suozhu get married earlier, we can understand it. It's just that my eldest sister will not come back until the end of the year, so the wedding date can only be set at the end of the year or the first month of next year."
Erya's job and house were all given by Tian Shao, so the couple felt that Erya's marriage must be done by Da Ya.
Tian Shao is now known to not only the ten miles and eight villages, but also the entire county. The matchmaker felt that they were right to think so, and said with a smile: "Okay, then I will go back and discuss with the old sister-in-law, I believe she will understand."
Old lady Nie is also reasonable, and upon hearing what they said, she agreed to set the wedding date at the end of the year. As for which day to choose, it must be done by someone.
At this time, Grandma Nie had a cold and fever again. This time it was not as serious as last time, but she still needed to take medicine. Er Ya couldn't bear it, so she said to Tian Dalin: "Father, Grandma Nie's health is getting worse and worse, I'm worried that something will happen."
Tian Dalin didn't think too much, and said when he heard this; "The old man is not in good health, you should buy more food and nutrition for her, and her body will gradually get better after eating."
Erya's heart moved, and she asked tentatively: "Father, do you still have ginseng at home? If so, can I take some for Grandma Nie?"
Tian Dalin is not a stingy person, but he did not agree with this matter: "The tonics such as ginseng and Tianqi at home are bought by your sister for me and your mother, how can you give them away? You want to give it to the old lady For ginseng, go to the pharmacy to buy it yourself."
With the matter of the Ji family, Tian Dalin also learned a lesson, and no longer let Erya subsidize the man without principle. Ginseng is so expensive, if he waits to save his life, he will spare some, but it is not enough to nourish the old lady's body. This has to be opened, will it be given in the future? Yes, I have to keep eating this food, but the Nie family can't afford it at all, so it will be his family's responsibility. Not giving, people see hope and disappointment, and finally Nie Suozhu will feel resentment in his heart.
You don't need to ask Erya to know that Tian Shao will definitely not agree; "Father, let's set the wedding date in September! Grandma Nie's biggest wish is to see Suo Zhu get married before she closes her eyes. Sorry."
Tian Dalin still did not agree: "I have already said that the wedding date is set at the end of the year or the twelfth lunar month of next year, and it is impossible to change it."
"Father, you used to be reasonable, why are you like this now?"
Tian Dalin was very angry and said: "I used to be too reasonable, so you dared to borrow money behind our backs, and more than two hundred yuan was just in vain. If I continue to be the same as before, don't you want to give up my family?" They were all emptied and given to the Nie family."
Erya felt a little guilty at once, but her mouth was still firm, and she said, "Father, what are you talking about in the past? If Suo Zhu heard about you, what would he think?"
Tian Dalin said: "He didn't follow, how could he hear it? Erya, the wedding date can only be at the end of the year or the first month of next year. If you don't want to set it in September, then you can manage it yourself!"
If Nie Suozhu came to beg, it would be due to his filial piety, and he could give in and set the wedding date in September;
Erya didn't dare to say anything. She is not an orphan, and her parents must help her get married, and she will not be laughed out of her teeth by herself.
A few days later, Nie Suozhu came over and begged Tian Dalin and Li Guihua to set the wedding date closer. Nie Suozhu said: "Uncle, aunt, my grandma's spirit is getting worse and worse, I want her to watch me get married."
Tian Dalin asked with concern: "The last time we visited your grandma, she was in good spirits. Why is it getting serious now?"
Nie Suozhu smiled wryly: "It was pretty good then, but not now. Uncle, Aunt, I have another kind request. I hope I can stay at home and continue to take care of my grandma after marriage."
Tian Dalin readily agreed this time, saying that people would recount the days, and then said: "Don't stay in the village to take care of your grandma. When you get married, take your grandma to live with you in the family building."
Li Guihua tugged Tian Dalin's sleeve in a hurry, seeing that he didn't change his words, although he was unhappy, he didn't say anything against him.
Nie Suozhu was very grateful to Tian Dalin, but still declined politely. His grandmother is such a face-saving person, even if he lives in the house of the uncle and the second uncle, it is impossible for him to live in Tian's house.
Looking for someone to calculate the date, the two families finally settled on September 18 after discussion. When the wedding date was fixed, Tian Dalin asked Liu Ya to go to the post office to send a telegram to Tian Shao, informing her of the matter.
(end of this chapter)