Chapter 227 Niu Damei Divorce
Niu Zhong decided to go into the mountains to ask Uncle Li for his opinion. Aunt Li felt that there was no need to bother elder brother about this matter: "The head of the family, now that Chen Qi is found to be infertile, he will definitely protect Damei in the future, and the members of the Chen family will not Bully her no more."
That's what he said, but Niu Zhongxin was very upset. It is obviously Chen Qi's problem, but since the third year of marriage, his daughter has been ridiculed and abused by the Chen family and the villagers.
The more Niu Zhong thought about it, the more annoyed Niu Zhong became. He couldn't swallow the anger. He interrupted Aunt Li irritably: "Prepare something. I'll take Damei into the mountains tomorrow."
After finishing speaking, thinking about Damei's current body, she gave up this year again. Running back and forth, I'm afraid her body can't bear it.
Aunt Li was soft-tempered, and she dared not persuade him when he was angry.
In the evening, Niu Zhong called his son and daughter-in-law in, and said, "Tomorrow I will bring grass roots into the mountains to visit your grandma's house for New Year's greetings. People from the Chen family want to bring Damei back, so you don't allow them to set foot in our house."
Finding out that it was Chen Qi's problem, Niu Zhong took Damei home. As for whether Chen Qi was dead or alive, he didn't care at all. However, he understood that the Chen family knew that Chen Qi would not be able to give birth, so they would definitely try their best to bring their daughter back. A man can't give birth, no good family will marry his daughter to him, so he will definitely hold on to his daughter.
The two brothers Shugen and Mugen were very angry when they found out about this: "Father, don't worry, if they dare to come, I'll call them out."
Sister-in-law Niu has also received a lot of anger from the Chen family in recent years, and now it is Chen Qi who has a problem and must have come out with this anger. Mrs. Niu said: "Father, don't worry, we will take good care of Damei."
Niu Zhong was very satisfied with the attitude of his son and daughter-in-law.
The father and son entered the mountain before dawn the next day. The trees on this mountain were frozen and the road was slippery. The two walked for nearly seven hours to get there. Uncle Li was shocked when he saw them, thinking that something serious happened at home.
Niu Zhong and Uncle Li said: "Brother and sister-in-law, don't worry, everything is fine at home. I am here this time for Damei's sake. Brother and sister-in-law, Damei is in good health. It is Chen Qi who can't." born."
The eldest aunt scolded Chen Qi and the Chen family as soon as she heard it. The Chen family decided that Damei couldn't say anything. They had been treating her harshly this year. All relatives and friends know about this.
Uncle Li didn’t scold. He knew Niu Zhong’s temperament very well. It was impossible for him to go to the mountain just to tell them about it: “Ah Zhong, do you have any plans?”
Niu Zhong wiped his face and said, "Brother, I, I don't know, I want to ask you for an idea."
"I wanted to ask Da Ya for an idea. She said that she had never experienced such a thing when she was young. Let me ask you."
Uncle Li was silent for a while and said, "Then zoom in and go home."
Going home means letting Niu Damei and Chen Qi separate. Before, he also thought that Niu Damei couldn't give birth, so even though he knew that she was having a hard time at her husband's house, he didn't say anything, at most he just sent some things over.
The eldest aunt was shocked: "Master, what nonsense are you talking about?"
Uncle Li said: "Damei can bear children, and it is not difficult to remarry. Why bother to hang on the crooked neck tree of the Chen family."
The eldest aunt also thought it was better to separate, but she felt that her husband should not directly intervene in this matter, so she said tactfully: "Sister and brother-in-law have to decide whether to separate or not?"
Niu Zhong sighed and said: "I also thought about letting Damei go home, but at the end of last year, the food was distributed. If we let her go home now, the family rations are not enough."
Uncle Li rolled his eyes at him, and said: "It's because Chen Qi didn't grow it, and it's not about Damei. Naturally, the rations will come back this year."
Speaking of this, his anger came up: "If Chen Qi treats Damei, even if he can't have children, I will let Damei live a good life with him. But how has he treated Damei in the past few years? His mother and sister-in-law He never cared about bullying Damei, and he himself beat or scolded Damei."
"Also, Chen Qi can't have children. If Damei doesn't separate from him, he will definitely adopt his brother's children. As far as the virtues of the Chen family brothers are concerned, it is estimated that they will raise their children for nothing in the end."
Niu Zhong immediately said: "Brother, I will let Damei go home."
Uncle Li was satisfied. The two brothers-in-law are actually good, but the two younger sisters are too soft-tempered and the other is too hot-tempered. Sometimes he thinks it would be nice if he can neutralize them.
The eldest aunt was concerned and asked, "What does Damei mean?"
Niu Zhong didn't think about this question at all: "If she doesn't want to separate from Chen Qi, I won't have this daughter in the future."
The women are more careful, and the eldest aunt saw that the two had made a decision and said: "People in the village talk badly, and Damei may not think about it after hearing those gossips after returning home. Brother-in-law, let Damei come to us after this matter is settled. Come and stay for a while. When Da Ya goes to the provincial capital for reexamination, Da Mei will go with her, and we will help her take care of her health."
Niu Zhong was very grateful.
After deciding to let Damei go home, Uncle Li also had a heart attack. Every time he sees that child, he feels bad. Not only does he look like an old man, but he is also lifeless. Well now, I can finally escape from the sea of suffering.
The next day Uncle Li took his eldest son down the mountain with Niu Zhong, both for the beauty and the foundation. There is nothing to do now, and I will be at ease in getting this matter done earlier.
As Niu Zhong expected, Chen Qi was unwilling to divorce, so the Chen family also came to intercede. In order to save Damei, Chen Qi not only knelt at the door of Niu's house to repent, but also swore to God that he would be happy with Damei in the future.
Niu Zhong didn't believe his nonsense at all. After beating him up, he called his three sons and six nephews to Chen's house. Not only smashed the Chen family to pieces, but also took back Niu Damei's dowry and one year's rations. By doing this, he was telling everyone that he would not let Damei go back to Chen's house.
Erya couldn't hide something in her heart, so she went to the city and told Tian Shao and Sanya when she knew about it.
After finishing speaking, Erya said cheerfully: "Mother told us that if we are bullied at my husband's house in the future, we will beat them back. Don't be so useless like Sister Damei. When you are bullied, you only know to go back to your mother's house and cry."
Tian Shao thinks that Li Guihua is right. If she is bullied, she will beat her back, so that the other party will know that you are not easy to mess with and will not dare to bully you again: "Uncle takes Damei back and the two are divorced?"
Erya knew about the divorce. There was a divorce in the commune two years ago. She said: "I took all the dowry home, so we must have separated."
"Don't you need to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through divorce procedures?"
Er Ya was puzzled, and asked, "If we separate, we will separate. Why do you go to the Civil Affairs Bureau?"
Tian Shao understood now, it seems that Da Mei and this Chen Qi did not have a marriage certificate. But now many rural people get married when they serve wine, and there is no concept of getting a marriage certificate at all. That's fine, if you really got a marriage certificate, Chen Qi's reluctance to divorce would be difficult.
(end of this chapter)