Chapter 1470 Sanya Extra Story (End)
Sanya said inexplicably: "He is your father, you can decide how to do this."
Wu Zhengqing also said what was in his heart: "I don't want Dad to be abused in bed in the future, and I don't do anything and let the other party bully him like this, then I can't feel at ease for the rest of my life."
"Wu Zhengqing, you are not the only son of your father."
Wu Zhengqing smiled wryly and said: "My sister-in-law is more active than anyone else, and she doesn't want to make any excuses when it's her turn to contribute money and effort. Dad will go to her place in the future, and with Dad's pension, he will take care of the three Meals, but it is impossible to take good care of him. The second brother is fine, but he lives in a remote place, and medical treatment is not available."
Sanya actually knew in her heart that it would be impossible to say no to that kind of situation, after all, he was his own father.
After being silent for a while, Sanya said: "Since your father only trusts you, you should agree to him, and save him from worrying about you. But the premise is that you must get the pension, and don't care if you don't have money."
Everyone has a time when they are old. When they are old and unable to move, they will be abused by their children. At that time, the children will be poked in the back. Anyway, there is no need to spend money or effort, just take care of it, and Wu Zhengqing can do it alone.
Wu Zhengqing said that this has already been said: "My salary is only so little, but I can't afford a nanny to take care of him. Xiu'er, don't worry, I won't be as stupid as before."
After so many things, he also understands that what should be fought for should be fought for, and what should not be responsible for himself should be pushed out. Don't make a big deal, unless you have too much money to spend like your aunt, otherwise you will only complain if you do too much.
Sanya felt that he had indeed changed a lot, but he was still not ready to remarry. It's not that Wu Zhengqing wants her to follow Wu Zhengqing to support Wu's father and deal with the people of Wu's family, but it's a great feeling that he doesn't touch anything now.
Seeing that Tian Xiu had no objection, Wu Zhengqing called Father Wu back two days later, telling him not to worry about the future.
Father Wu said that he is at home alone now, so he can say anything directly. Saying this also requires him to have a clear attitude.
Wu Zhengqing said: "Don't worry, you won't be able to move in the future, I will take you over and ask a nanny to take care of you. If one can't do it, then please two, one male and one female."
The woman is responsible for washing and cooking, and the man chats with him and takes him out to bathe and wipe him. There are two people to take care of it, and it doesn't take him much time and energy.
With Wu Zhengqing's promise, Father Wu's heart was finally at ease. No one knew that after returning from visiting Lao Chen, he had nightmares every night, dreaming that he was lying in bed and no one was looking after him.
After talking for a while, Father Wu hung up the phone when he heard someone calling him outside.
My friend saw the smile on his face and asked, "What's so happy?"
“My son just called and told me that my granddaughter won second place in a dance competition.”
Four grandchildren and granddaughters, the most promising one is Miaomiao who has never cared much about her. Alas, so we still have to educate them well! It's also fortunate that Wu Peng is getting better now, and he won't worry about it in the future, otherwise the child will really be ruined by the old wife. This child really cannot be spoiled.
Friends congratulate him.
In a blink of an eye, it is the Spring Festival again. Since the divorce, Sanya has brought Miaomiao back to Sijiu City every Chinese New Year, and this year is no exception.
Wu Zhengqing asked cautiously, "Xiu'er, can I go back to Sijiu City with you to celebrate the New Year?"
In the past few years, because of his mother, he didn't dare to mention this, so he took the initiative to stay on duty. But now that this worry is gone, I don't want to be alone anymore.
Sanya refused: "We're not really remarried, what's the matter with you going back with me?"
In Yangcheng, Sanya didn’t want people to say that they were husband and wife. They lived less and had little contact with neighbors, so no one went to the bottom of the question; living together in Hong Kong City is very common, and no one will ask these questions when they are full. .
Wu Zhengqing felt that Sanya's heart had hardened, but he didn't know what to do with being together so vaguely: "Sanya, when will you remarry me?"
"Are you urging marriage?"
Wu Zhengqing hurriedly said no, he said in a good voice: "After remarrying, I can celebrate the New Year with you, and then I can go to visit my relatives."
"Also, wait a few years for Miaomiao to find a partner. We are remarried, and the parents of the other party will not pick her up as a child of a divorced family."
The police station has encountered all kinds of weird things. He had dealt with such disputes several times in Forty-Nine City. The man's family saw that the girl was from a divorced family, and thought that the girl was not mentally sound and refused to agree to the marriage.
Sanya snorted coldly and said, "We don't care about marrying such a family."
Wu Zhengqing changed his angle and asked: "If the parents of the person we are looking for in the future are divorced and remarried, and both of them have children, are you willing to marry your daughter to him?"
It’s still a question, but I’m sure I don’t want to. Looking for such a man, the parents can't help the young couple, but they come to the door again when something happens, which is very frustrating.
"If you compare your heart with your heart, people don't want to find a daughter-in-law whose parents divorced."
Sanya thinks what he said makes sense, but Miaomiao is only sixteen years old, so it's too early to worry about it. What she didn't expect was that Miao Miao actually helped to intercede.
Holding Sanya's arm, Miaomiao said: "Mom, let Dad go back to Sijiu City with us to celebrate the New Year! Sister Diandian and Minyu will be with their parents during the New Year, I want to too."
Sanya felt amused when she heard this, and said, "It's not that your father has no legs. I don't have the right to stop him from going back to Sijiu City for the New Year?"
"Mom, I want Dad to celebrate the New Year with us?"
Sanya shook her head and said, "No, Mom wants to celebrate the New Year with your grandma and aunt. But if you want to celebrate the New Year with your father, I won't stop you."
Wu Zhengqing was frustrated when he saw that his daughter was useless. But he still returned to Forty-Nine City. The flower pots were taken to Hong Kong City, and Sanya's friend helped them find a good seller, who sold them for 160,000 yuan, and he planned to use all the money to buy a house.
After Wuya got married, the sisters made an appointment, and the mother-in-law's family took turns to come over during the Chinese New Year. This year, they all go back to their natal home for the New Year, and the six sisters have a happy reunion.
The sisters sat together, chatting about work, business, and parents of each family.
Sanya told everyone what happened to the Wu family after Wu's mother died of illness.
Tian Shao was silent for a while after listening, and then called Diandian and Miaomiao into the room. Min Yu was bored by himself, so he also came in.
After the three of them sat down, Tian Shao asked Sanya to repeat what she had just said, and then she asked Miaomiao first: "What do you think about your grandfather remarrying?"
She is not familiar with the members of the Wu family, and she is really not interested in what these people did.
Tian Shao said with a smile: "Aside from his identity, you can talk about your views on this matter as a bystander."
Miaomiao thought for a while and said: "Grandma has been married to him for more than 30 years and has been working hard at the housework, but she went on a blind date in the second month of her absence, and remarried in three months. It's quite chilling."
Tian Shao looked at Diandian again: "What do you think?"
After a little thought, he said: "Auntie, I think Miaomiao's grandfather is a heartless person, and you must never marry someone like this."
Tian Shao shook his head and said, "Grandpa Miaomiao remarries so soon, it's a bit cold, but it's an exaggeration to say that he is ungrateful and ungrateful. When her grandma was sick, her grandpa not only took good care of her, but also tried his best to satisfy her wishes."
"I was thinking about my grandson, because the eldest daughter-in-law didn't agree to live there, so he rented a house next to him. I didn't want grandma Miaomiao to be troubled, so I paid my auntie to do the laundry and cook for cleaning."
"Grandma Miaomiao's medical treatment, medicine and babysitting expenses are all spent on his grandpa's pension. When she loses her temper, his grandpa also coaxes her to persuade her not to be impatient. Only in this point, she is better than many men."
"If Grandma Miaomiao hadn't suffered from heart disease herself, and had to rest well after the operation, it would be absolutely impossible for her to live another twenty years."
Wu Fu's performance during Wu's mother's illness, even Sanya knew it and praised him several times. It's just that if he remarried so soon, all the good things he had before were wiped out.
Diandian was stunned when she heard this.
Tian Shao looked at Min Yu and asked with a smile, "Boss, what's your opinion on this matter?"
Min Yu said without hesitation: "I think Grandma Miao Miao is too stupid. She shouldn't be so frugal when she was young. She should let herself live comfortably first. When she gets older, she should enjoy life even more. In the end, she worked hard It's not worth it to work hard for your children and grandchildren without enjoying a day of blessings, but in the end you end up taking advantage of others."
Her thoughts are basically the same as Tian Shao's, this is the effect of subtle influence.
Tian Shao added: "Grandma Miaomiao has worked hard and dedicated her whole life to her son and grandson. But because there is no bowl of water, the son and daughter-in-law are not only not grateful but also complain."
After saying this, Tian Shao looked at the three girls and said: "There are many romance novels on the market now, and the hero and heroine of these books will live or die for love."
"Love is wonderful. We have no objection to falling in love when you go to college. But you have to remember that people live in this world not only with love, but also with family, friendship and career."
The three of them nodded together.
Tian Shao continued: "When you grow up, you will definitely get married and have children. At that time, you may face the choice of continuing to work or resigning to take care of your children at home."
"Which is more important, family or career? There is no standard answer to this question. Some think family and children are more important; some think career is more important. No matter which one is, it is your own choice."
"It's just that whether you want to be a strong woman in the future or return to the family as a housewife, you must remember that you must never put all your chips on men. It is a very stupid approach. People's hearts are changeable. Hello, but after a few years, I will get tired of it. At that time, he will leave you, and you will lose the skills to make a living, what will you do then?"
Miaomiao and Diandian are the age of the young girl Huaichun, they were stunned when they heard this.
Tian Shao went back to Father Wu again: "Just talk about Miaomiao's grandfather, it is quite responsible to take care of his grandma when she is sick. Many men see their wives are sick and leave them alone, and they still live a chic life."
Min Yu said unhappily: "Mom, your statement is too one-sided. Dad won't, I believe that neither the second uncle nor the fourth uncle will."
Tian Shao said with a smile: "I said a lot, but I didn't say everything. Your father certainly won't, but there are very few people like your father. Outside, it's common for men to abandon their wives and sons and marry young and beautiful ones after they get rich. "
She can only guarantee that Tan Yue will never change his mind in this life, let alone marry again; as for Wu Zhengqing and Suo Zhu, this is unknown.
Seeing that Diandian and Miaomiao were pale, Tian Shao said again: "Actually, there is no need to be afraid. As long as you don't give up your careers, you don't have to be afraid even if men change their minds in the future."
"Diandian, your third aunt got divorced not only because of our support, but also because she had her own career to support herself and Miaomiao. If she stayed at home to take care of the children, she didn't make any money, and she didn't have the help of her natal family. No matter how extreme she is, she would not dare to divorce. Because divorced, she cannot live independently with her children, so she can only choose to swallow her anger."
Li Guihua felt that Tian Shao shouldn't use Sanya as an example.
Sanya thinks it is a good thing to be able to educate children: "Your aunt is right. If I can't make money and can't provide Miaomiao with a good life, I would rather continue to be bullied by the Wu family than to get a divorce."
Min Yu said: "Mom, don't worry, we will definitely not lose our jobs for men in the future. If we dare to make such excessive demands, I will let him go."
Tian Shao wanted to train Min Yu to be a lady, but unfortunately failed, this girl is sometimes wilder than boys, and her courage is boundless. However, she was the only girl in the Tan family for two consecutive generations, and everyone loved her very much.
Diandian and Miaomiao also expressed that they will always stick to their dreams and will not change or give up for anyone.
Tian Shao is very satisfied with this answer. Growing up with the love of her parents and family, and with her guidance, she shouldn't be cheated by a scumbag, and she won't be around the house after getting married.
In the evening, Sanya took Tian Shao's arm for a walk in the backyard: "Sister, thank you. With what you said just now, I'm not afraid that Miaomiao will encounter unkind people in the future."
Tian Shao said: "I'm not worried about Miaomiao, this child is independent and will not be manipulated by others. What I am more worried about is a little bit, mom and second sister are both people who regard their husbands as their gods, and this child is very obedient. The words of the two of them."
Sanya smiled and said: "It's okay, mother and second sister listen to you. In the future, you can help Miaomiao get married, so there should be no problem."
Not everyone is as confused as Mother Wu, who will bully a capable daughter-in-law who is backed by her natal family. There is no case around her, it can only be said that she is too unlucky.
Tian Shao hummed and asked, "When are you going to marry Wu Zhengqing?"
"Before Miao Miao got married."
"What?"
Sanya explained the reason: "One is for Miao Miao to not be looked down upon by her husband's family in the future; the other is that he doesn't care about the current affairs of the Wu family, so he just calls to check on the safety during the holidays, and I don't need to bother."
"If you think it's good, then stick to it, and don't be persuaded by him again."
"Don't worry big sister, I said that if he doesn't want to force it, he can cut it clean. Anyway, my daughter has grown up and is sensible, so she doesn't need to act."
Tian Shao had a gratified smile on his face. Very good, you don't have to worry about this girl anymore.
(end of this chapter)