Chapter 1450 Sanya Extra Story (29)
Sanya thought about it all night and couldn't figure out why her mother-in-law had changed so much before and after. She was obviously very respectful over the years. The next day, I went to the front yard with panda eyes on my face.
Tian Shao was doing yoga at this time, so she turned back without daring to disturb her, and didn't take her daughter there until breakfast.
Sanya was full of worries and had no appetite, but she still forced herself to eat a bun and a bowl of porridge.
After dinner, Min Yu took Miao Miao out to play, and Min Ji followed.
"I've been thinking about it all night, have you figured it out yet?"
Sanya honestly said no.
Tian Shao felt that it was really stupid: "The main reason is that you have low self-esteem, and then you think too low of yourself."
Sanya was taken aback.
Tian Shao actually discovered this problem a long time ago, but it was also caused by the environment, so no one can blame Sanya. Later, Sanya became more and more confident after making money in business, so she didn't care about it anymore. Later, Wu's mother favored sons over daughters, and Sanya was very relieved from being dissatisfied to knowing how to resist. It was only in the end that she discovered that Sanya was only superficially good, but deep down she still had low self-esteem.
Tian Shao said: "When we first met, you felt that you were not worthy of Wu Zhengqing. You were very grateful for Wu's father and Wu's mother's approval. Later, Wu's mother came to propose marriage, and you were even more moved."
Sanya didn't say anything. At that time, she really felt that she was not worthy of Wu Zhengqing. Tian's family planed food in the fields. Although she had a craft, she was a village girl, and Wu Zhengqing was born in a cadre family, and she was good-looking and outstanding. When two people got married, it was entirely because of her admiration.
It’s also the same kind of heart, when she was asked to go to the samurai family, she wanted to perform well. This kind of performance is not only making clothes for Wu's father and mother, but also taking care of all the housework.
Tian Shao said to her: "Sanya, you and Wu Zhengqing look at each other because both sides think it is acceptable."
Sanya felt that this was wrong, and said, "Sister, my father-in-law is a cadre, Zhengqing and his three brothers are also very well developed, and you are the only one in our family who is promising."
Tian Shao didn't know what to say: "Are you stupid? You are gentle and beautiful, and you can make money to support your family. As for your family background, your brother-in-law is from the Tan family. I also founded a comic company. Rijin Doujin."
"There is an old man in the Tan family, and your brother-in-law and two elder brothers are also in high positions. Even your brother-in-law is developing very well. I have strong financial resources. Wu Zhengqing married you. If he needs help in his career, can I not stand by? It's also the same, they have been urging you to get married. For the sake of face, they said that Wu Zhengqing wants to have a grandson when he is old."
Sanya was stunned, and said after a while, "I-I don't know. Big sister, why didn't you tell me back then?"
Tian Shao explained: "With your temperament, if I told you this at the time, you might refuse to look at me."
Back then, Sanya’s household registration was in the countryside, and food rations had to be bought with money. Talking about relatives was a big shortcoming. At that time, Wu Zhengqing was very good both personally and as a family.
Sanya felt that she was stupid: "I thought they were looking at me for being diligent and sensible, but the truth is like this."
Sanya lowered her head and said, "I often do housework at home, so I don't think it's a big deal."
One is to do the usual housework, and the other is to be praised by Wu Mu and feel recognized. Later, the second sister-in-law of Wu didn't work, and she felt that it was only ten days or so, and it was okay to do more, so she never told her family. It was Mother Wu who despised Miaomiao, she went home to tell Li Guihua and the others because she felt uncomfortable, Tian Shao only found out.
Tian Shao actually wants her to fall in love freely, but Sanya has a conservative personality and does not get in touch with young men. It happened that Bai Churong was the matchmaker, and Li Guihua and Tian Dalin urged him, so they went along with the flow. But this marriage, even now, Tian Shao thinks it's okay. Even though Sanya felt humbled and humbled, at least she had a good life in the past few years, and it was because Wu's mother favored her grandson that it became unreasonable.
Sanya felt a little guilty: "Sister, I'm sorry, I've made you worry about me all these years."
Tian Shao shook his head and said, "What do the whole family say? Fortunately, Mother Wu didn't like Miaomiao and favored her grandson later, so you also came to your senses. It's just that you have been lying low to please her all these years, and she has taken it for granted. When you don't If you don't follow her in doing housework, she will be dissatisfied and start blaming you."
Sanya thought about it carefully, and found that Tian Shao was right. In addition to praising her for being diligent and sensible in the first two years, she began to instruct her later. When she stopped doing it the year before last, Mother Wu changed her face.
Thinking of this, Sanya asked: "Sister, what should I do now so that she won't make trouble all the time."
Tian Shao didn't answer her words, but asked, "You didn't object to their visit this time, did you?"
"Elder sister, she is Zhengqing's mother no matter what. Now I want to come and see our new home. If we object, our relatives and friends will say we are wrong."
"Then when they come to the door, do you greet them with a smile?"
Sanya's expression froze, and after a while, she whispered: "She came to the door, if I keep a straight face and ignore her, it will be difficult for Zhengqing to do so."
Tian Shao looked at her and said: "At the beginning, I said that I would never step into Li Tie's and Chen Honglian's house, and I would not recognize this relative. At that time, everyone thought I was wrong, even my mother and uncle persuaded me to give it to them. Apology. I disagree. Everyone thinks I am disrespectful and ruthless. So what? I am comfortable and not aggrieved."
"Sister, Zhengqing has been very kind to me these years. For his sake, I don't want to make the relationship too rigid."
Tian Shao was most dissatisfied with Wu Zhengqing. She snorted coldly and said, "Do you know why he didn't want to come to my house all these years, seeing me like a mouse seeing a cat? He told you that he thought I was imposing and scared Tan Yue asked him about work, but it was all nonsense."
"He didn't dare to come because he was guilty, and he was afraid that I would scold him. Obviously, he knew in his heart that Mother Wu did something wrong. You and Miaomiao suffered a lot of grievances, but he wanted to be a filial son, so he blindly made peace."
Sanya never thought about it again, the real reason why Wu Zhengqing didn't like to come to eldest sister's place was this.
Tian Shao continued: "When will he stop being with him? It's because you don't want to compromise and even say that you want a divorce. He is afraid that you really won't get along with him, so he took everything over."
Sanya thought that Wu Zhengqing was indeed as Tian Shao said, he had been making love with each other in the past few years, and his heart suddenly felt extremely sour.
Tian Shao said: "Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are eternal problems. But you are in Sijiu City, Wu father and mother are in the northwest, no matter how bad you are, you will go back to visit relatives for a few days. There is nothing bad about life in this family, only your eldest brother-in-law's house Yes. Compared to many people, you are already considered very good. It is difficult for an honest official to break up housework, and the more you interfere, the worse it may be, so I didn't tell you about it."
Sanya was very depressed and said, "Sister, I'm so stupid! I haven't found any of these problems."
"It's not that you didn't realize it, but you are kind and tolerant to your family members, and you won't think of them in a bad direction."
(end of this chapter)