Lin Xiaoxiao did not expect Lin Shu to speak so directly, and looked at him blankly...
“Xiaoxiao, actually you understand a lot of things even if I don’t say them, don’t you?”
Lin Shu looked directly at her and said in a deep voice: "You want me to give you some advice, so what advice do you want me to give you? From the perspective of being a brother, say what you want to hear most, such as no problem, Should you pursue your own happiness, or should you stand from the perspective of the morning light, allowing you to withstand loneliness and temptation? I think you are not willing to listen to either one, right?"
She was just his cousin, and the relationship between the two of them had been that way since childhood, so Lin Shu couldn't preach to her or anything.
"This..." Lin Xiaoxiao was silent. She didn't know how to answer Lin Shu's question for a while.
At the same time, I am also thinking, yes! What on earth was going on in my mind?
"Brother, I feel like I'm quite confused." Lin Xiaoxiao said with a bitter look, "On the one hand, I feel a little sorry for Chen Guang, but on the other hand, I really can't stand this kind of love that is more torturous than a long-distance relationship! I My roommates can go out with their boyfriends on weekends, but I don’t know what to do on weekends. People are in long-distance relationships, but they can still make phone calls. It’s the same as if I don’t have a boyfriend..."
Lin Shu actually understood her when he heard what she said.
Sometimes when it comes to love, there really is no harm if there is no comparison. Many problems arise when comparing two sisters.
For example, if your boyfriend gives you a gift worth 500 yuan, you originally liked it, but then you find that the boyfriends of the little sisters around you give gifts worth thousands or even tens of thousands, and you will naturally feel a gap in your heart.
Although Lin Xiaoxiao is not that vain, she also wants to have a sweet love.
"Especially...Brother, at first I thought he could just be an ordinary soldier. In that case, I wouldn't be able to accept it. At least he wouldn't be so busy. But later I found out that he is a special soldier just like you. Moreover, for the sake of being an officer, I can’t see the future now..."
This is the most terrible thing. He Chenguang is very busy every day, and the special forces have stricter control over mobile phones. The two of them have not talked on the phone for a long time.
She can wait for He Chenguang for a few years now, but what about in the future?
He Chenguang made it clear that he planned to work in the army for the rest of his life. Do the two of them really have any future?
"Well, I can understand." After pondering for a while, Lin Shu slowly spoke, "No matter what, you are my sister. It is impossible for me to advise you to stay with He Chenguang even though I know this. .”
Hearing the words, Lin Xiaoxiao raised her head and looked at Lin Shu. She knew that Lin Shu hadn't finished speaking yet and there was more to come.
Sure enough, Lin Shu continued:
"Everyone is selfish in relationships and wants to do better for themselves. This is understandable. However, He Chenguang is also my comrade and brother after all, so as a brother, I still hope you can think carefully about it. After all, , you two have such a deep emotional foundation, you have time to communicate peacefully, and if it doesn’t work anymore, we can break up peacefully.”
"Let's take a step back, even if your suitor makes you very attracted, and you want to be with him, it's best to make it clear to Chen Guang first. After separation, it doesn't matter whether you have a seamless connection or something? At least You have to have an attitude first. What’s going on if you’re not clear about it? Are you right?”
Lin Xiaoxiao hummed, but felt something was wrong, so she defended herself: "Brother, I never thought about cheating..."
Lin Shu smiled and said, "It's almost done. If we continue to develop at this momentum, it will only happen sooner or later."
Lin Xiaoxiao was not convinced, "Is it as evil as you said?"
"Things between men and women are just between one person and the other. If he really makes an affectionate and romantic confession to you on Valentine's Day or something, do you think you would 100% reject him now?" Lin Shu He asked looking at her meaningfully.
"Of course I can!" Lin Xiaoxiao replied subconsciously, but after saying that, she felt less confident and whispered: "Actually... it's not necessarily..."
If he really gave her a romantic confession on Valentine's Day, and then thought about her so-called boyfriend who was still in the army and couldn't even get through on the phone, the imbalance in her heart might really make her agree as if out of anger.
Lin Shu looked at her with a smile from beginning to end, and was not surprised at all by her hesitation.
No matter how deep your feelings are, can you still block the inquiries around you?
Furthermore, if Lin Xiaoxiao really loved He Chenguang that much, would she be with Wang Yadong in the original drama?
There are some things that Lin Shu cannot explain clearly as he is the elder brother.
But he knew very well that for Lin Xiaoxiao, it was not necessarily how much she loved and liked He Chenguang. It was more that Chenguang had grown up with her since she was a child, making her accustomed to having such a brother like him. 'It's just the same existence.
Habit ≠Love!
For some reason, Lin Xiaoxiao felt a little panicked when she saw Lin Shu looking at her with a smile on her face. She was like a child who had done something bad and didn't dare to look at Lin Shu.
“In short, think about it for yourself! Before doing anything, ask yourself in your heart.”
Lin Shu originally planned to say nothing more, but thinking that she was his sister after all, and that his second grandfather was very kind to him when he was a child, he hesitated for a moment, and then asked: "By the way, Xiaoxiao, that suitor of yours is chasing you. "At that time, did you know that you have a boyfriend and he is serving in the military?" Lin Xiaoxiao hummed, "I know." She did not hide the fact that she had a boyfriend and was serving in the military.
“Xiaoxiao, as a senior brother, I would like to give you one more advice.”
Lin Xiaoxiao heard the words and said: "Brother, tell me."
"Stay away from your suitor! It's not a fun thing. Even if you really break up with Chen Guang, I don't really want you to fall in love with such a person. It's easy to get you involved." Lin Shu advised.
“Why do you say that, brother?” Lin Xiaoxiao expressed confusion.
Lin Shu asked back: "What kind of fun can a person who knows someone else has a boyfriend and is a soldier in the army take advantage of and sneak in and ask for help?"
“But he said he is a good friend of me! I have always treated him as a friend, and so far, he has not done anything out of bounds.”
After Lin Xiaoxiao finished speaking, she saw Lin Shu looking at him like a fool, feeling a little embarrassed: "Brother, why are you looking at me like that?"
"Let me see if you have lost your mind in school. Whose good friend gave you limited edition earrings worth tens of thousands of yuan? If you really have such a good friend, please be sure to introduce him to me. Even if I was a prodigal again, , and he didn’t say that he would give away tens of thousands of dollars to others without blinking an eye or asking for anything in return." Lin Shu retorted without being polite at all.
If pure friendship can reach this level, then it can only be said that this person is really heartless!
Lin Xiaoxiao is only a sophomore this year. They have known each other for at least two years, right? What a deep friendship to give such an expensive thing, not to mention that from what she meant, the two of them hadn’t known each other that long!
"Uh..." Lin Xiaoxiao was speechless by Lin Shu.
yes!
My cousin, the son of the richest man in Jiangsu Province, couldn't do this with a six-digit monthly pocket money before. How could that senior's family be richer than his cousin's?
Her mind seemed to have turned around, "Brother, you mean...he can be so attentive to me. If I really get together with him, he might also be so attentive to others?"
Lin Shu looked at her, "She's not stupid after all."
Even though Lin Shu was not angry when he spoke, Lin Xiaoxiao was not angry. She also felt that her cousin was right. Looking at the senior's previous attitude towards her, it seemed quite strange.
They are good friends, right? The relationship between the two of them was better than good friends, but the other party's scale and distance were well controlled, so that she would not think too much about it.
But it was this feeling of being far away that often made her subconsciously encounter some unhappy things, and she wanted to talk to him, but he happened to be always there.
Lin Xiaoxiao is not stupid. After Lin Shu's prompting, she realized that something was wrong. Why was she so willing to chat with the senior recently?
He confessed these problems to Lin Shu. Lin Shu thought about it and said only one sentence:
“Smart traps are often hidden very deep. You may even feel that this place is nice at first, but you don’t know that if you take another step forward, you will find yourself in an abyss!”
…
After Lin Shu’s persuasion, although Lin Xiaoxiao didn’t know exactly what she should do, she planned to follow Lin Shu’s words and think carefully about how she and Chen Guang should proceed when she goes back.
As for the senior, she chose to believe what her cousin said, stay away from this person, or at least keep a good distance.
Lin Shu nodded with satisfaction when he heard Lin Xiaoxiao's plan. His cousin actually had many shortcomings, but her advantages were also obvious - she could listen to others' advice.
In fact, frankly speaking, these are not considered shortcomings of Lin Xiaoxiao.
Lin Shu couldn't stand the moral high ground and criticized her for not being able to bear loneliness and not having the advanced consciousness to become a military wife.
Military wives are great. Those who choose to become military wives deserve Lin Shu's respect, but this does not mean that it is wrong not to choose to become military wives. This life is inherently short, and some people just want to spend their limited youth. , live a better life, there’s nothing wrong with that!
If we really follow this logic, don’t those who don’t like being soldiers mean they are unpatriotic?
There is no such moral kidnapping!
The reason why Lin Shu persuaded Lin Xiaoxiao was that he hoped that no matter what she was doing, she would face it with an open mind instead of trying to tread two boats. This is the most basic moral requirement!
“Hey! Grandson, Xiaoxiao, why are you standing outside in this cold weather?!”
At this moment, an old woman’s voice came from the door. It was very familiar. Lin Shu turned around immediately after hearing the voice and said with a smile on his face:
“Grandma, are you awake?”
The old man was sleeping upstairs just now, so Lin Shu came out to get some fresh air without disturbing him! (End of chapter)