Chapter 1324 1326 [Warning Shen Jie]
"Look, the parenting lessons you taught me are so precious. He doesn't listen, he only knows how to play with his fish." Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu displeasedly and said, "I knew it, he didn't want this child."
Gu Jia saw that Chen Yu hadn't said anything, didn't agree to have this child, and felt worthless for her best friend.
Chen Yu was quite embarrassed when he heard this.
Actually, it's not that he doesn't want this child. It's just that he has a lot of worries, not as impulsive as Zhong Xiaoqin, so he acts calmer.
Let others see it as if he insisted on not wanting the child and was determined to get rid of it.
It's just that he is clumsy with words, and he wants to defend himself, but he doesn't know how to speak.
"Hey, I have to say a few words on behalf of Teacher Chen." Seeing this, Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Mr. Chen is definitely not the kind of cold-blooded and numb person, just because he takes care of the fish so well, you know he A thoughtful, caring person.
If you don’t believe me, let’s talk about it. Xiaoqin, who usually cleans your house, who is responsible for buying vegetables and cooking, who is responsible for purchasing daily medicines, and who is responsible for paying utility bills..."
Zhong Xiaoqin was taken aback by his question, and was speechless.
These trivial things at home were indeed done by Chen Yu.
"You see that Gu Jia is so capable, she needs sister Chen's help to do so many things." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "and Chen Yu is not a full-time housewife. Apart from doing these things, he usually has to be busy with his own work. It's even more difficult. So his contribution to this family is really great."
Zhong Xiaoqin blinked.
Gu Jia was also taken aback.
Chen Yu was a little moved when he heard what he said.
He usually does these housework. Zhong Xiaoqin never noticed it, or turned a blind eye to it, so she never realized how lucky she was to marry such a hard-working husband.
If it were another family, they would have to argue about who cooks and who cleans the pot.
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"Let's talk about the child, I want to clarify this point with Teacher Chen." Xiang Nan said again, "It's definitely not that Teacher Chen doesn't care about this child.
It’s just that we men are slow to warm up, and our ability to accept new things is slow. Just like clothing, in the past hundred years, women's clothing styles have changed three times a year. Men's clothing styles have not changed much from a hundred years ago to the present.
Secondly, the baby is in your stomach, and you can really feel it, so your reaction is stronger. Teacher Chen still can't feel it, so the reaction is relatively flat.
Thirdly, you women think about things in a simplistic way. Have you considered how to give birth to your child and how to raise it? Which hospital to choose, which doctor to choose, natural delivery or caesarean section, how to take maternity leave, how to take care of the child, please do not hire a confinement lady, which nursery school to send to, which kindergarten to go to, how to pick up and send...
If you don’t consider these things, Mr. Chen has to. If you think too much, you will naturally have concerns. It's not as optimistic as you make it out to be. Teacher Chen, do you think I am right? "
Chen Yu really wanted to give Xiang Nan a knock.
What he said just now is from his heart.
Zhong Xiaoqin just doesn't care about everything, she just thinks that raising children is fun, she has never thought about how to give birth or how to raise them, that's why she laughs so heartlessly.
She doesn't want to worry about it, so he has to solve these problems. With so many problems overwhelmed, of course he will have resistance.
"Really?" Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Chen Yu and said.
"Really." Chen Yu nodded, "Actually, if you really want to have a baby, then let's have a baby. It's not that I don't want this baby."
Hearing what he said, Zhong Xiaoqin laughed immediately.
"Hey, that's right, congratulations, the sky is full of clouds." Xiang Nan laughed.
In fact, women have always paid attention to attitude rather than results. If the attitude satisfies them, even if the result is unsatisfactory, they can accept it.
On the contrary, if the attitude is not good, even if the result is exactly what they want, they will feel very uncomfortable.
As soon as the child was gone, Zhong Xiaoqin took all her grievances on him, how wronged she was.
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Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu bid farewell and left.
"You two, I apologize for what I said at the dinner table." Xiang Nan said when sending them off, "But I still have to remind you that in the first three months of pregnancy, you must be cautious and optimistic."
Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin both nodded.
Xiang Nan's words at the dinner table were a bit unpleasant. What miscarriage, fetal death, fetal arrest, really frustrating.
But he is also kind.
The accident rate in the first three months is high, so we should be cautiously optimistic.
There is an old saying that if you don’t see a rabbit, don’t scatter an eagle.
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"Husband, your performance today is not bad." After the two left, Gu Jia looked at Xiang Nan and smiled.
Although there were a few sentences that were a bit exaggerated, they were able to make Chen Yu look back, and the result was considered complete.
"Hey, it's better not to intervene in such matters in the future." Xiang Nan sighed and persuaded.
The so-called every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. I can't finish my own scriptures, and I have to worry about other people's affairs. I really don't feel tired.
"I don't want to, but Xiaoqin is my best friend, so I can't leave her alone." Gu Jia said.
Xiang Nan nodded.
Caring about friends is also one of Gu Jia's strengths.
If it were his friend, he wouldn't ignore it.
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In the evening, Xiang Nan asked Shen Jie to play football together.
Shen Jie was in the same company as him back then, and they worked together in the Olympic fireworks team, so they had a deep friendship.
After that, both of them left the company to start their own businesses.
Shen Jie has a high emotional intelligence and good technology, so the company's development is better than that of Camry.
In the play, when Xu Huanshan's company was on the verge of bankruptcy, Shen Jie transferred all the money from his company to him in an emergency. It can be seen that the brother's loyalty is quite reliable.
"Congratulations, Huanshan, I heard that your company has won another big order." Shen Jie smiled.
"You're quite well informed." Xiang Nan smiled, "That's right, if you get an order, you'll probably be fine in the second half of the year."
"That's fine." Shen Jie said with a smile, "At first, I thought, if your company fails, I can help. Now it's all gone."
"Hey, I'm already very grateful that you have such a heart." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "By the way, I had a dream yesterday, which shocked me a lot."
"What dream?" Shen Jie asked curiously, "Could it be that the fireworks factory exploded?"
"Hey, I really let you talk." Xiang Nan nodded and said, "The fireworks factory exploded, I was arrested, the company closed down, Gu Jia remarried, and my son was sent to Australia.
Let me tell you, that dream is very real, it is really not a good omen. It seems that I have to find time to visit the factory. If nothing happens to this guy, it's a big deal if something happens. "
"Well, you're right. If so, I'll go back and have a look." Shen Jie also felt the same way.
(end of this chapter)