Chapter 1219 1221 [Soul Torture]
"The next link is [Please listen to me]." Zhang Xueer said with a smile, "How long has it been since you parents communicated with your children on an equal footing, and how many truths have the children accumulated to tell their parents.
Today in our auditorium, children, you can speak freely, and bravely speak out what you are bored in your heart.
I also hope that parents will not interrupt their children while they are speaking out. Children are grown-ups, and we should listen to and respect their opinions. Okay, which classmate comes up first? "
As soon as the words fell, many students raised their hands, and it seemed that they all wanted to say a lot.
"Okay, classmate Jia Wenting, you come first." Zhang Xueer invited with a smile, and then a cute little girl came onto the stage.
"I want to tell my dad that no classmates bully me, no classmates give me nicknames, and no male classmates write to me. Can you stop asking me a hundred times every day?" Jia Wenting said.
When she said this, the father sitting below was a little embarrassed.
The parents all laughed together, and the children gave their thumbs up. Many people felt the same way.
"Lu Zeyu, come~" Zhang Xueer invited again with a smile.
“I want my parents to spend more time with me. When I go home every day, I eat alone, do my homework alone, and sleep alone. Other people’s homes are bustling, but I am alone.
I hope you can spend more time with me. I promise that after I turn twelve, I won’t need your company. " Lu Zeyu said on stage.
His words made many parents feel sad.
Afterwards, Zhao Lin, Xia Huanhuan, Mi Tao and other students also took to the stage one after another, telling their parents what was in their hearts.
Zhao Lin hoped that her parents would stop fighting, Xia Huanhuan thanked her parents for their love, Mi Tao thanked her parents and teachers...
Their speeches received everyone's applause.
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"Okay, the children have spoken very well, are there any students who are willing to come up and try?" Zhang Xueer asked with a smile.
Yan Ziyou hesitated for a moment, then stood up.
Tian Yulan was very happy when she saw this, "Ziyou, come on!"
She was happy that her son had the courage to speak on stage.
Yan Ziyou walked onto the stage with a solemn expression, took the teacher's microphone, then lowered her head, pondered for a while, and said, "I think it's not me that my mother loves, but me who got full marks in the exam."
In a word, the audience was shocked, and they all looked at Tian Yulan in surprise.
Tian Yulan was also very surprised. She never expected her son to say such words when he came to the stage. For her, it was no less than Ling Chi in public.
"What are you talking about, kid? Why don't I love you anymore? How else should I love you?" She stood up and said.
"Mother Ziyou, don't get excited, shall we listen to the child's words?" Zhang Xueer said quickly when she saw this.
"Yes, sit down and let the child finish first."
"Sit down, sit down, how can you keep the child from talking?"
On the stage, Yan Ziyou had already shed two lines of tears, "Every time you say it's for my own good, it's actually for your own sake, and you never care whether I'm happy or not.
Mom, I don't think you ever try to make me happy. Every time you see that I don't read and do my homework, you feel uncomfortable. Every time you see me idle for a while, you want me to recite a few more words and write more papers. Because of my lack of progress in study, you wronged the teacher to give the student who got the first grade the question...
If I have a child in the future, I will definitely not force him to attend any remedial classes, even if he does not go to school. He likes to play football from morning till night. "
At the end, Yan Ziyou couldn't help asking loudly, "Why is it so difficult to do what you like?"
Tian Yulan couldn't bear such torture from the soul, so she stood up immediately and escaped.
Seeing this, Zhang Xueer went to the stage and hugged the weeping Yan Ziyou.
The parents in the audience were also shocked, and there was silence for a while.
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"The next link is【Please trust me】." Zhang Xueer asked Yan Ziyou to return to the audience, and then continued, "Most of the parents here have signed up for their children's remedial classes outside. According to my statistics, our class , Only three children did not sign up for class.
Then you have enrolled in remedial classes, whether your grades are satisfactory, whether it can make your children have a better future, we have conducted a special investigation for this.
Come on, parents, please watch the big screen. According to our survey, the off-campus training institutions that mainly choose numbers, their teaching content is beyond the outline, and they mainly focus on cramming education.
This is really effective in the lower grades, allowing children to get top grades. But after the senior grades, the disadvantages of this kind of super-class education and duck-feeding education appeared.
Because the foundation laid by this kind of education is not solid. After the senior grade, due to the weak foundation, many students' grades have regressed. Especially after going to junior high school and high school, the consequences are more obvious. "
"Here, I want parents to show a set of data..." Zhang Xueer clicked on the computer, and then a set of data appeared on the screen, which was a survey of junior high school students and high school students.
The survey shows that all children who receive super-standard education and cramming education in remedial classes will have a significant decline in grades after entering junior high school and high school, and the results of the college entrance examination are also not ideal, and they are not in the state of being a top student in primary school.
On the contrary, students who have never received remedial class education have shown extraordinary potential after entering junior high school and high school, and their grades have improved significantly.
When the parents saw this survey, they couldn't help but look at each other.
"Mr. Zhang, is this investigation true or false?"
"Is it really useless to enroll in cram school? No way?"
Parents all questioned one after another, feeling that this survey is unreliable.
If cram schools are really that bad, will there still be so many cram schools in society?
Parents are not all fools, they know that the cram school is not effective, and still let their children go to it?
"Parents, please trust our school. This survey is authentic and credible. It was issued by the Education Bureau." Zhang Xueer explained, "I also advise parents not to listen to the false propaganda of those commercial training institutions and blindly report to your children. class. That is very detrimental to the growth of the child.
Learning is a long-term process. Compared with the improvement of children's short-term performance, a sound personality, sunny personality, healthy physique, and even a good parent-child relationship are more helpful to children's future. "
When the parents heard what she said, some nodded in agreement, some were skeptical, and some didn't believe it at all. In short, the same rice feeds all kinds of people, and everyone has their own thoughts.
"Okay, parents and students, this is the end of our symposium today. Parents, if you have any questions, you can stay. If you don't have any questions, you can leave." Zhang Xueer announced again.
Some parents left for a while, while others stayed to ask questions.
Xia Junshan and Nan Li went to find Xiang Nan.
(end of this chapter)