Chapter 1217 1219 [Tacitus Trap]
"Then teacher, how long do you think it will take?" Yan Peng asked quickly.
"We really dare not guarantee this kind of thing." Xiang Nan waved his hand, "In short, please trust us and we will do our best."
Hearing what he said, Yan Peng couldn't help feeling depressed for a while.
He was a civil servant, and he was tired of hearing this kind of cliché long ago.
What is [do your best], if there is no measurable standard, it is empty talk.
"Mr. Zhong, can't you give me a specific time?" Yan Peng asked.
"Father Ziyou, you have to believe in our teacher's sincerity, just like we believe in your guarantee." Xiang Nan said, "Ziyou is a good boy, Xueer and I like him, and we don't want him to be punished." Isolation, we will try to help him. Please trust us and give us time, okay?"
Yan Peng asked him to promise that he would try his best to help Yan Ziyou. But he didn't come up with a promise that Tian Yulan would never report in the future. So what he said was just as empty.
They are all thousand-year-old foxes, why are they still playing Liaozhai.
The headmaster nodded.
He also saw that the crux of the problem now was that Yan Ziyou's parents were full of distrust towards the school. Therefore, Tian Yulan will write an anonymous letter to report, and Yan Peng will insist on letting Xiang Nan act as a guarantor.
After seeing through this truth, he also changed his attitude towards Yan Peng, Tian Yulan, and Yan Ziyou's family. From support and tolerance to opposition and exclusion.
Because he knows that in sociology, there is a phenomenon called [Tacitus Trap].
When trust is lost, no matter whether the other party does a good thing or a bad thing, it will be considered a bad thing.
In this way, no matter what the school does, they may be misunderstood, opposed, and reported by them.
If things go on like this, the teaching order of the school will be affected.
Since this is the case, it is better to part ways and be safe with each other.
So he said, "Mr. Yan, please believe in the school spirit and discipline of our school, and also in the professional ethics of our teachers. We will definitely help Ziyou as much as possible."
If Yan Peng continues to distrust the school, then he has nothing to say, and can only persuade them to arrange for Ziyou to transfer to another school. After all, between two excellent teachers and one student, he still prefers to keep the teacher.
Yan Peng heard what the principal said, so he couldn't continue to entangle, so he nodded, "Well, then I choose to trust the school and the two teachers. I hope you don't let me down."
"Don't worry, Ziyou's father, as teachers, we have professional ethics and will not intentionally target a certain child." Xiang Nan nodded.
Yan Peng had no choice but to go back first.
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"Mr. Zhong, Mr. Zhang, you have to understand the feelings of the parents." After Yan Peng left, the principal left Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer behind to give a lecture.
Xiang Nan and Zhang Xueer both nodded.
"This is the last resort." The principal waved his hand and said, "If a child stays in one class for a long time, changing classes rashly will be detrimental to his physical and mental development."
"Principal, in my opinion, although Yan Ziyou's parents are an exception, they are not alone. There are indeed barriers between the school and the parents.
Parents generally lack trust in the school, our teaching, and our management, so they would rather spend a lot of money and enroll in cram schools outside.
This kind of supplementary tutoring is a waste of time, energy, and money, and it affects their learning status in school. It is not necessarily good for children's growth and education.
I think the school should strengthen communication with parents to eliminate their misunderstanding of us, so as to fundamentally prevent such incidents from happening again. " Zhang Xueer suggested.
Now most of the students in the school, no matter the first grade or the sixth grade, almost all enroll in cram schools outside. Outside cram schools are usually super-class education.
The first grade learns from the second grade, the second grade learns from the third grade, and the third grade learns from the fourth grade...Because the students have already learned it outside school, so when they learn it at school, they no longer listen to the lectures. Half-hearted, looking around, the result is a very bad study habit.
Originally, as long as they listen to the lectures at school, they are enough to cope with the junior high school entrance examination. As a result, I didn't study well in school, and I had to go to tutoring institutions to make up lessons, which wasted money and energy, and I also developed a bad habit.
After reaching the senior grades, middle and high schools, because the foundation is not well laid, coupled with the lack of good study habits, the grades will definitely decline sharply. Lost his wife and lost his army.
"Teacher Zhang's suggestion is very good." The principal nodded, "That's right, the parents of the students are now taking tutoring outside.
But they don't know that most of the extracurricular tutoring institutions are cramming education. Although it can improve the grades for a while, it can only treat the symptoms, not the root cause. And our education is the one that truly takes into account children's learning and entertainment, and is the most suitable for children's physical and mental development. "
"Principal, why don't we hold a parent meeting and communicate with the parents." Xiang Nan suggested, "We can also let the children speak out and let the parents listen to the children's voices."
"That's a good idea, I think it's feasible." The principal nodded.
At the moment, Xiang Nan gave some suggestions, such as the process of the parent meeting, the arrangement of the venue, the content of the meeting, etc., which made Principal He nod his head.
"Okay, Teacher Zhong, you are worthy of being a young talent in our school, and you have thought very well." The principal nodded.
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Yan Ziyou returned to school in the afternoon, and Tian Yulan personally sent him there.
"Mr. Zhang, I'm really sorry. I shouldn't have been confused for a while and wrote those two report letters. I'm sorry for the harm I caused you." She said to Zhang Xueer.
Zhang Xueer was kind-hearted at first, so she nodded after hearing what she said, "Okay, mother Ziyou, it's all in the past, don't mention it again. I won't blame you anymore, and in the future, don't do it again." This kind of thing."
"Yes, I will never do this kind of thing again, please rest assured." Tian Yulan immediately expressed her opinion.
For a long time today, Yan Ziyou didn't go to school, and stayed at home all the time, almost worrying her to death.
She was afraid that her son would really become tired of studying and would not want to go to school, and her hard work would be in vain.
So no matter what, she must settle this matter as soon as possible, so that teachers and classmates can accept her son again.
Zhang Xueer nodded, then took Yan Ziyou's hand, "Okay, Ziyou's mother, you go back. I will bring Ziyou back to class."
"Well, thank you." Tian Yulan was moved.
At this moment, she was indeed very touched. It's really good that Zhang Xueer didn't blame her son for what she did.
(end of this chapter)