Chapter 121 121【Owing a Favor】
Lying in bed at night, Qiao Yingzi sent Xiang Nan a WeChat message.
"Fang Houer, you are amazing, you have guessed my mother's every move."
"She actually bought me clothes today, and took me out for a big meal, and went to the theater to watch "Mission: Impossible 6."
"How can you guess so accurately?"
Xiang Nan smiled after receiving the WeChat message, and then replied, "The Shanren have their own tricks!"
"Let me tell you first, I won the bet this time. You haven't forgotten what the bet is, have you?"
"Rogue!" Qiao Yingzi said angrily, and sent a beating emoji.
Xiang Nan replied with an emoji of "Don't be afraid, I'm indeed a hooligan" and laughed.
"Hmph, are you going to tell me or not!" Qiao Yingzi continued to ask the truth.
"Sister, you are asking for help, can you have a better attitude?" Xiang Nan replied.
"The daughter of the people asks Yifan Daxian for guidance!" Qiao Yingzi thought for a while and replied.
"This attitude is not bad." Xiang Nan replied, "But tell you, what benefits do I have?"
Qiao Yingzi immediately sent a "casserole big fist" emoticon package.
Xiang Nan replied with a "fear of resetting HD" emoticon package.
"Okay, tell me what you want." Qiao Yingzi replied.
"I haven't thought about it yet." Xiang Nan replied.
He originally wanted to reply "I want you", but considering that the time is not yet ripe, he didn't send it.
"Cut!" Qiao Yingzi replied.
"Well, you owe me a favor, and you must pay it back in the future." Xiang Nan replied.
"OK, can you tell me?" Qiao Yingzi readily agreed, and then hurriedly asked.
"Actually, it's not hard to guess what Aunt Song is thinking. She loves you and wants to control you, so she always slaps you sweetly." Xiang Nan laughed, "She ruined your dream of letting go of you yesterday." Ritual, I will definitely find a way to compensate you today. And to coax a little girl like you, don’t you just go shopping and watch movies, what else can you do?”
"..." Qiao Yingzi was taken aback for a moment, and after thinking about it carefully, what Xiang Nan said and what happened to her really matched the scene.
Her mother does always slap a sweet date.
For example, if her Lego toys were confiscated at noon, she would cook something delicious for her in the evening; today the mother and daughter had a quarrel, and the next day her mother would give her a gift.
"Fang Houer, what should I do then?" Qiao Yingzi asked for help, "My mother treats me well for a while and bad for a while, I really can't stand it."
"I have no idea about this kind of thing now." Xiang Nan replied, "Well, I will go to the bookstore to read some books on parent-child relationship in the past two days, and then I will analyze it carefully for you."
"Thank you, Fang Houer." Seeing him say that, Qiao Yingzi felt very warm.
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After another day, Xiang Nan took Lin Lei'er to go through the transfer procedures.
After running around for two days, the two finally got everything done.
"Cousin, thank you so much." Lin Lei'er said gratefully.
"Thank you, we are all family." Xiang Nan waved his hand and smiled.
Fangyuan and Tong Wenjie saw that Xiang Nan had managed to accomplish this, and they couldn't help but praise him greatly.
"Son, you have really grown up." Tong Wenjie said happily.
"Fang Yifan, really good!" Fang Yuan also gave a thumbs up and said.
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Such as "Nonviolent Communication", "Why Homes Hurt People", "Every Child Needs to Be Seen", "P.E.T. Parent Effectiveness Training: Making Parent-child Communication Efficient and Simple", etc.
These books are mostly outstanding works written by well-known educators and psychologists at home and abroad based on their own research for many years and combined with practical examples.
There are both theoretical research and case analysis, and the writing is also interesting and vivid, and it is very worth reading.
Xiang Nan read it carefully afterwards, and felt that it was really helpful.
But just reading a few psychological counseling books and parent-child relationship books, Xiang Nan doesn't think he can resolve the conflict between Song Qian and Qiao Yingzi.
Because theory is dead, but people are alive.
Human feelings and psychology are very complex, changing rapidly, and unpredictable.
Counting on reading a few books to solve psychological problems is like reading a few tutorial books and wanting to take the Tsinghua University exam. It is simply daydreaming.
And as the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change.
Song Qian is already in her forties, and her personality has long been fixed. It is even more difficult to change her mind.
In the play, if Qiao Yingzi was not suffering from moderate depression and suicidal tendencies, Song Qian would never have repented.
In fact, this is still a TV series that has been beautified.
In real life, parents like Song Qian who have a strong desire to control, even if they force their children to death, will not admit their mistakes, and will only complain that their children do not understand their painstaking efforts.
So Xiang Nan didn't give Qiao Yingzi advice immediately.
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On September 1st, the school officially opened.
On the first day of school, the Fang family was dispatched early in the morning.
Fangyuan drove Tong Wenjie, Fang Yifan and Lin Leier to the school facing Zhaohui.
According to Tong Wenjie, this is a good start for the new semester.
"Fanfan, you must take good care of Leilei at school and look like a cousin. Do you know?" Tong Wenjie urged.
"Don't worry, with me around, no one would dare to bully him." Xiang Nan nodded.
"Leilei, if you encounter any problems, you can find Yifan, don't carry them by yourself." Tong Wenjie urged again.
"I see, auntie." Lin Lei'er also nodded sensiblely.
When I came to the school gate, I saw Teacher Li Meng standing in front of the gate with the students on duty, watching the students coming and going.
"Mr. Li Meng, hello. This is my nephew Lin Lei'er. It is the first day of school today. Please take care of me in the future." Tong Wenjie said with a smile, "Lei'er, this is your class teacher, Teacher Li."
"Hello, Teacher Li~" Lin Lei'er greeted quickly.
"Well, okay, let's go in." Li Meng nodded.
Xiang Nan then dragged Lin Lei'er into the school, and led him to Class 3, Class 3, Senior High School.
As soon as I entered the classroom, I saw Qiao Yingzi writing a daily question.
This is a special project for the math teacher to improve the students' math level. A difficult math problem is asked every day for students to solve, but very few can solve it.
When Lin Leier saw this question, he immediately stood still.
A moment later, Qiao Yingzi finished writing the question, turned around and saw Lin Leier, and was slightly taken aback, "Student, who are you looking for?"
Lin Lei'er didn't answer, but picked up the chalk and answered directly on the blackboard.
"He is my cousin, Lin Leier, a top student from southern Fujian." Xiang Nan introduced with a smile.
"Your cousin?!" Qiao Yingzi looked at Lin Lei'er in surprise, "Well, don't say it looks a bit like it."
"Of course." Xiang Nan laughed.
(end of this chapter)