Chapter 1090 1092 [Let me enroll you in a class]
"Are they on a business trip, or are they here to see me?" Xiang Nan said in surprise when he heard this, "Xiao Liu, don't you think you're walking too fast? We've only been together for two days, and your parents are going to see me , To be honest, I think it's a bit fast."
"Oh, they really came to Yanjing for a business trip, and they want to see yours by the way. It's okay, they have seen all the boyfriends I made before." Wu Xiaoliu said with a smile, "Cao Xiaoqiang, you just See them, my parents are all well."
"Well, for your sake." Xiang Nan nodded, "But little girl, next time you make such a big move, you must discuss it with me in advance.
Dating and meeting parents is a very important stage. It requires a process and a sense of ritual. You asked me to meet them suddenly, I was neither mentally prepared nor materially prepared, and I might not even be able to schedule the time.
Lack of preparation, showing timidity at that time, not only I am embarrassed. You, your parents, and our relationship will all be greatly affected, do you understand, little girl? "
"I hate it, she's already very big, don't call me a little girl~" Wu Xiaoliu pursed her mouth and said coquettishly.
"Now that you have grown up, you should think things through more carefully." Xiang Nan commented, "Xiao Liu, love is a matter between two people, and marriage is a matter between two families. You have to learn to look at things from the other side's point of view."
"Okay, old comrade, don't give me any more lessons. You're going to be a monk." Wu Xiaoliu said nonchalantly, "Come on, go to sleep."
Seeing this, Xiang Nan couldn't help frowning.
Wu Xiaoliu thinks of himself as his own, thinking that every time he comes out, it's just a matter of time, this kind of phenomenon is not good.
Dating a relationship is a matter between two people. If you can’t think about each other, you only think about your own affairs, and let the other party always accommodate you. This relationship is just not normal.
"Forget it, let's observe for a while. If she still behaves like this and refuses to change after repeated admonitions, then there is nothing I can do." Xiang Nan couldn't help thinking.
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The next morning, Xiang Nan was able to sleep well.
At this moment, a rush of alarm bells rang, waking him up suddenly.
While he was in a daze, he saw Wu Xiaoliu slapping the alarm clock away, and then called the training institution.
"Hey, manager, I woke up this morning with a terrible headache, and I can't even get out of bed, can I ask you for a vacation?" Wu Xiaoliu said pitifully, "Okay, thank you, I will definitely see a doctor. I can go to work tomorrow, for sure."
Then she hung up the phone, giggled, and leaned forward to kiss Xiang Nan, "Cao Xiaoqiang, let me be considerate, I've asked for leave today to accompany you."
"Xiao Liu, don't be like this, work is important." Xiang Nan frowned when he heard this, "You suddenly asked for leave before going to work, and you are causing problems for the manager. If you don't agree, it seems unreasonable. Promise you, How many things do people have? Besides, if you are so self-willed, what if you get fired?"
"Then you come to support me." Wu Xiaoliu smiled, "Cao Xiaoqiang, I'm yours now, you won't leave me alone, will you?"
"Of course not." Xiang Nan waved his hand, "But, Xiao Liu, believe me, a life of doing nothing is definitely not easy."
He had been unemployed for a while. No need to go to work, no need to do things, stay at home every day watching movies, playing games, watching episodes...
That kind of day sounds beautiful, but in fact it is the stage when he is the most unhappy and most depressed. Every day in a daze, staring in a daze, like a walking dead.
People work not only to make money, but also to gain a sense of accomplishment, value and satisfaction, making people feel that they are beneficial to society, not just a rice bug who only knows how to eat and drink.
"I won't be idle. I want to be a housewife, and I want to have children for you." Wu Xiaoliu said with a smile, "Cao Xiaoqiang, you don't despise me, do you?"
"Of course not." Xiang Nan smiled, but shook his head in his heart.
Wu Xiaoliu thinks things are too simple. Are housewives so easy to do? ! Doing housework, raising children, being filial to the elderly, socializing and entertaining...it is not easy to do well in any of them.
Moreover, an excellent housewife must also be a good housewife, support her husband's career, help him make suggestions, and accompany him through life and death. Even more, beware of the mistress, don't let her take advantage of the opportunity to **** her husband away.
The most important thing is to enrich yourself so that you can keep pace with your husband. Otherwise, the gap between the two will become bigger and bigger, and sooner or later someone will be left behind.
Feng Yuhua in "An Jia" managed to help her husband become the CEO of a listed company and stay at home as a full-time wife, but her husband cheated within a few years.
Thanks to her ability, she resolutely divorced her husband and took half of the property. Otherwise, the most likely end for her is to be kicked out of the house with nothing to gain.
Cheng Kaiyan in "Dajiang Dahe" also only wants to be a housewife, and doesn't want to work hard, so she gave up halfway in learning accounting and Japanese. In contrast, Song Yunhui is constantly learning and making progress.
This made the gap between the two bigger and bigger, and the common topics became less and less. In the end, Cheng Kaiyan admitted that he was not good enough for Song Yunhui.
Wu Xiaoliu is still too naive, thinking of everything simply, unrealistic, and a castle in the sky.
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"Xiao Liu, your desire to be a housewife is very good. I will help you sign up for a training class later. Such as etiquette, manners, beauty, health care, early education, flower arrangement, tea ceremony, painting, equestrianism, investment and financial management, jewelry collection, Appreciation of cultural relics...you have to master all of these." Xiang Nan then nodded and said,
"Our family will be very rich in the future, and all the people we deal with are either rich or expensive. As a full-time wife, of course you must be proficient in everything, so that you can sell it, right?"
"Huh?!" Wu Xiaoliu was taken aback, "Does it need to be so troublesome?"
"Of course." Xiang Nan said with a smile, "Otherwise, do you think that a full-time wife is just a housewife, and you can just pretend? If you want to be a full-time wife, you have to learn a lot."
"Do you really want to learn?" Wu Xiaoliu frowned.
She really didn't think about it that much before. I just thought that after becoming a full-time wife, I can not go to work, not work, stay at home and play every day, and live a happy life.
Now I know that the housewife still has to learn so much, which is a bit beyond her expectation.
"Of course you have to learn, and you have to learn." Xiang Nan nodded, "Xiao Liu, if you want to be a full-time wife, you need to master various skills.
Wang Xifeng in "A Dream of Red Mansions" is your role model. At home, you have to be a good housekeeper, serve your husband well, and take good care of your children. Outside, you have to be a strong woman, and you have to learn how to socialize, invest and manage money.
Otherwise, you will become Youshi. If you can't control the affairs at home, you can't support the affairs outside. At that time, you will be the grandma of Dongfu in name only. "
After hearing this, Wu Xiaoliu could only nod his head.
(end of this chapter)