Yuzhi listened quietly to Ma Taohong's narration. She didn't know much about Li Wangcai's family.
The pot of dirty water I made up is all based on imagination and has no evidence.
After the quarrel between the two families, there was no intersection, and she never went to find out what was going on with the family.
Listening to Ma Taohong's weeping past, I felt that the words I made up at the beginning were really too gentle. Marrying a wife who is not a good person will harm the three generations is true.
Zhao Changfang is afraid that this is the beginning of the misfortune of three generations of this family. Ma Taohong's experience is indeed sympathetic, but some things are not so absolute.
Today's world is much better than before. Women's rights can be protected through policies. It depends on whether this person has the heart to fight for his own rights.
Ma Taohong's children, the eldest is more than ten years old, and the youngest is seven or eight years old. Basically, their character has been fixed, and it is difficult to correct it.
The only person who can correct them is Ma Taohong, but obviously, Ma Taohong does not have this ability.
If she can stand up, learn to be smart, learn to be strong, it is not hopeless.
Yuzhi listened quietly, without responding.
Ma Taohong seemed to want to find someone to confide in, and didn't intend to respond.
After talking about his own suffering, he also talked about his jealousy towards Yuzhi.
"You didn't know good from bad before. You had a man who loved you, an obedient child, and a kind mother-in-law. But you were not satisfied, and you wanted to do everything in your power. I see, I really think you..."
Before she finished complaining, Ma Taohong noticed a fierce stare, which made her swallow all the rest of her words in fright, and tried her best to shrink herself into a ball trembling.
Yuzhi didn't feel offended by these words, it was a fact, she never avoided her past mistakes, only by facing them sincerely could she truly repent and learn a lesson from them.
After patting the dark-faced Sang Dazhuang, he took back his air-conditioning.
Ma Taohong hugged herself tightly, feeling envious again.
Look at other people's men, if someone says something bad, you have to protect them.
What about her man?
Oh, don't mention it.
"Tell me, why is this person's life so different. I am also working hard to live. I also want a harmonious husband and wife, filial sons and daughters, loving parents-in-law, and a harmonious and beautiful family."
“I obviously try my best to make this family better, but everyone in this family thinks that I am not worthy, and that I am not of one mind with them, and they all want to exclude me.”
"I don't understand, what am I doing wrong and what do I have to do to make them accept me?"
"I didn't do anything harmful to the world. I didn't even have anyone to gossip or gossip. I've always behaved in my own right. Why did God punish me like this?"
"So, the same life, different fate, but you live a better life than me, I am not reconciled, I am jealous, every time I suffer from hardships, you are infinitely beautiful."
"I always have dark thoughts, and I keep asking why? Why do you have a good life because you are so good, I work so hard, so hard, but I will suffer from suffering."
"I wish you could fall from heaven to **** and suffer what I have suffered."
"You said, am I being punished by God just because I am jealous of a person for no reason, maliciously slander and curse a person in my heart?"
Yu Zhi thought about it very seriously: "Probably not, God is not so idle, and he is not omnipotent. He probably doesn't know what you think."
Yuzhi's serious answer stunned Ma Taohong for a moment.
Then smiled wryly: "So, my life is cheap? I was born to suffer these hardships?"
Yu Zhi thought about it seriously again and said: "Probably not. If there is a theory of innateness, then if I follow my previous life trajectory, I should not die well."
In her previous life, she didn’t end well, and Yu Zhi was right.
Yu Zhi smiled and squeezed the man's hand.
Ma Taohong suddenly discovered that Yuzhi was not as fragile and vulnerable as she thought.
She seems to be very strong in her heart, at least she won't be able to be so calm when facing past mistakes like her.
So, she is really not worthless as everyone said.
Yuzhi continued: "But I have changed, so my life has also changed. After the change, I live a very happy life and will continue to be happy forever."
"So, I don't think it's true to say that it's doomed. How a person lives depends on how the person lives."
Ma Taohong opened her mouth, and it took a long time to find her own voice.
"So, you mean, I should change?"
Yu Zhi shook his head: "I don't mean anything, I'm just answering your question."
"What you want to do is your business. Others can't interfere, let alone make decisions for you."
"Whether to change or not depends on whether you need it or not."
“And some people may not get the results they want even if they make changes.”
“I can only say that I am very lucky. I met family members who cherish me. Even if I don’t change, they will always cherish me. I changed, which is the icing on the cake. It will affect the ending, but it will not make the ending worse.”
"You should be jealous of me. There should be no luckier person in the world than me."
As he spoke, he leaned softly towards the tall and straight man.
The man immediately took a step forward, holding the little daughter-in-law tightly in his arms, feeling the pain in his heart.
Ma Taohong looked envious, but at this moment, she didn't see any jealousy.
Yes, Yuzhi is really the luckiest person in the world, to be able to marry a man who loves her so much, how many people in the world can be as lucky as her.
Ma Taohong seemed to let go of something.
Hesitated for a long time, and asked anxiously: "If, I said, if, I get divorced, will I be hated by others and pointed at the backbone?"
Yuzhi was quite surprised by Ma Taohong's question. There are not many women who can take the initiative to think of divorce these days.
Yu Zhi didn't answer directly, but asked in doubt: "Why do you want to divorce?"
Ma Taohong smiled wryly: "If I don't get a divorce and leave that house, I won't be able to survive, and I will be tortured to death."
Yuzhi suddenly realized: "So, you are afraid of death."
Ma Taohong originally felt that being afraid of death was a shameful thing, but just now Yuzhi calmly faced her mistakes, which gave her courage, and she felt that she was not ashamed to face the fear of death calmly.
"Yes, I am afraid of death. I came here today to seek death, but when I really want to end this life, I am afraid."
Yuzhi nodded: "It's good to be afraid of death. Only when you are afraid of death can you think about how to live better and longer."
"I think that there is only one life, and all life is possible. Respect for life is the attitude that everyone alive should have."
"Your fear of death is a good idea, and I support you on that."
Ma Taohong was stunned for a moment, and then couldn't laugh or cry: "It's obviously a shameful thing, but after you say it like this, it has become an extremely noble and great thing."
Yuzhi asked back: "Isn't it? The martyrs fought **** battles, escaped death, and shed their blood. Isn't it for future generations to live better?"
"If everyone tramples on life, belittles life, and ignores life, then what's the point of the contributions of the predecessors?"
"Things that are hard-won, things that have no regrets, shouldn't we cherish them more?"