Chapter 277
Originally prepared a beautiful maid, but unexpectedly, Yang Yu really changed, so he didn't take a second look, and he knew the rules of the maids in the room.
He respects Li Qian very much, and he has a lot to discuss. Yang Yu has his own property and income. The Yang family can share the property when they get married, and the property will be completely divided after the parents are a hundred years old. Generally speaking, the property is not divided. split up.
Large families pay attention to unity as strength. Most of them divide the property after the death of the parents but do not separate the family. It is much better to concentrate on supporting the children and grandchildren than to do it alone.
Nephews and nephews are also the backup force of the family. They support each other and help each other. It is by no means as simple as one plus one.
Yang Yu took the property and his small treasury and dumped it to Li Qian.
Li Qian is also very good. In three months, she managed the affairs in the yard clearly and clearly, including the outside industry. She managed to control Yang Yu around, and the stewards all praised Li Qian for being smart and capable.
Yang Yu was willing to listen to his orders. He really learned a lot of general affairs after going back and forth, which is much better than being fooled before. Master Yang happily kept boasting that he married the right wife.
Yang Yu also felt the difference. A good daughter-in-law must not only be beautiful, but also have the ability to support the family business. Life after marriage also made him realize the benefits of a daughter-in-law. I like this set very much, and the relationship is becoming more and more harmonious.
After listening to his sister, Li Yu felt relieved.
"You know how to deal with men, so I feel relieved. Men generally take soft things rather than tough ones. There are many benefits to being gentle, as long as the goal is achieved."
"yes."
"Sisters, I am most worried about you. I am afraid that you will have a bad life. I am also afraid that you will have resentment against him and you will not be able to let go of your body. After all, you will live a lifetime. In the future, if you have a child, you will also be the father of the child, so you can't keep struggling."
Although Li Yu has a tough temper, he is not a fool, and he should be persuaded. After all, he hopes that his sister will live in harmony and happiness.
Li Qian looked at her sister with respect and joy in her eyes, "Sister, I understand, I will live a good life and will not give up easily."
"Then I'm relieved, don't worry about having a child, and you will have time to get pregnant after you gain a firm foothold in the Yang family. Does your eldest sister-in-law have a son?"
"Have a daughter, but no son yet."
"Then don't worry, don't rush to give birth to your eldest son before your elder sister-in-law. You may be suspected of competing for the top. You can afford to wait for three years when you are younger. Talk to your men about this in daily chats, and don't compete with your elder brother and elder sister-in-law. Your pelvis has not grown, and you want to give birth to a healthy son-in-law, and if you listen to the wind, it also seems that you know the rules. First, the family is harmonious, and it will not be blamed on you in the future."
"Yes, I remember."
Li Qian is very dependent on Li Yu, her elder sister.
"If there is any grievance, it is inconvenient to go home and say, come to me, the sky is falling, and my sister will support you. The Li family can't accommodate you, and I will support you forever."
Li Yu made this promise to every married younger sister, no matter what the Li family's attitude is, I, the eldest sister, will always protect you and support you.
"I know my sister loves me."
Li Qian nodded vigorously.
She has the responsibility to take care of her brothers and sisters. She doesn’t need you to ask for permission. She can take the initiative to think ahead of you and get things done at your door, so that you won’t be embarrassed or lose face.
When dealing with relatives, no matter whether they are one-mother compatriots or not, she will do her best to protect her, and she will try her best to provide some guidance.
Even the aunts and sisters who were married far away in the capital, Li Yu sent gifts to every household in the capital as soon as he had the shipping, just to support the married daughters of the Li family, as evidenced by his in-laws, the Li family did not lose their airs, We are still alive.
The reason why the direct lineage of the Li family has such a high status that no one can shake it is that all the people in the direct lineage have paid more than they imagined, and the little things converge into a river. This is the core of the unity of the Li family.
After inquiring about Li Qian's life carefully, Li Yu was a little relieved. He repeatedly told him not to get involved with the man, and to persuade him gently. It is very important to coax the man's heart. If the man stands on your side, many things can be easily solved.
Li Yu took the Gu family sisters to the banquet, chatted with the wives with ease, chatted and joked with many young daughters-in-law, and made a relationship with them after coming and going, and made an appointment to meet next time, or send a small gift to your house.
After the Gu family sisters returned home, they chatted in private, feeling very emotional.
"No wonder the ancestors said that marrying a wife will be prosperous for three generations. I really feel a lot today."
"Isn't that right? This is the first time that my sister-in-law and the young mistress of the Yan family have met. Why do they look like real sisters when they go out? The young mistress of the Yan family almost reveals her family background to her sister-in-law. It's too soon."
It was the first time for the Gu family sisters to see such powerful communication skills, and they were a little dumbfounded.
"Sister-in-law is indeed a dragon and phoenix among people. It's not all because of Li Jiawei's name to make a face for her. The most important thing is that she is talented and knowledgeable. She is recognized and appreciated by everyone. She knows the rules and is polite. What she says and does makes people feel happy. This is the key to her being recognized by everyone.”
"It's definitely not true if a person says she is good, but men, women and children all praise this person as good, capable and talented, that means she has real skills."
"In the future, we need to learn real skills from our sister-in-law. We just follow what people say and don't ask why. It seems that we are stupid and not enlightened."
"That's right. If we go back and review the account books, there must be some problems we missed. We can't let my sister-in-law think that we are all stupid, and I can't even teach them. I can't afford to lose this person."
"Yes, if you are not as talented as you are, you have to work hard to make up for it. If you don't work hard, people will laugh at the Gu family as a bunch of waste."
The sisters also need face. Seeing Li Yu's ability also inspired rigidity. When they went back to learn their skills, they worked harder and harder, which made the old ladies applaud.
Gu Lei read and reread the booklets that Li Yu had sorted out carefully, memorized them all in his heart, selected capable and suitable managers, and worked with his uncles on the workshop.
Not to mention that he has a good eye for picking people, and he is quick and clear in handling things. His uncles admire him, and he is very pleased.
Gu Lei has been doing things smoothly recently. Since he got married, he didn’t need to burn the candles at both ends. He concentrated on studying and doing things in the Ministry of War. He became smarter and smarter.
"Daughter-in-law, I got a good chance of three places, who do you think I will give it to?"
Now, regardless of the big or small things, Gu Lei always learns to talk to her when he comes back, discussing with her, even telling her about outside things.
Husband and wife get along more harmoniously and trust each other.
"Do you have someone in your heart? My humble opinion. Reserve two places for your trusted brothers and uncles. You can choose the remaining one who is talented and strive for more people to trust you and support you. One of the places is recommended for uncles. It can also play a supervisory role if you follow the juniors to do it, and you won’t mess things up.”
"You think like I do."
(end of this chapter)