"If the game goes wrong, I have worked so hard to earn this little face and opportunity. I dare not let go, because I am afraid that they will not cherish it."
Gu Lei knows how difficult it is for Boss Li. He has to take care of the Li family members, and he also has to pull the Gu family members to make progress.
"Look, you are so petty, you don't have the courage to think and act like Yu'er, you worry too much. That's not good for smart people, it's easy to miss opportunities if you think too much."
Grandpa Li raised his chin proudly, "My granddaughter doesn't care, she will do whatever she thinks of, and it doesn't matter if she makes a mistake. Everyone in the family will watch, and someone with a bright heart will know that you are dedicated to the clan and everyone. Where things are inappropriate, uncle and brother will stand up, this is the person who can come to you."
Grandpa Li treats people sincerely, and he watched the grown-up children, teaching them with his hands like his own grandson, breaking them apart and breaking them into pieces, saying that he taught Li Rui and Li Xi the same way, there is no difference.
Otherwise, Grandpa Gu doesn't care much, anyway, my grandson will not fail and someone will teach him.
"Yes, my grandson has been educated, it's because I'm too timid."
"I understand your heart. When I took over the Li family, the difficulty was similar to that of the Gu family. I was squeezed out everywhere, and I was left with nothing but a three-point nail. This family fortune was earned by me in the northwest, and I was covered in scars. here."
"Your uncle and your second uncle and brothers went to the Northwest to gain military meritorious service. They didn't dare to make any mistakes, for fear of losing the face of the family. Your second uncle was cautious in the previous court and thoughtful and appropriate in every way, but I was not satisfied. He was too timid, so he let go. , how do you know who can't do it if you don't do it?"
Grandpa Li is a bold and careful person, the same kind of person as Grandpa Gu, and he is the hero who started the family business.
The families they took over were riddled with holes, and there were a lot of problems in the detention of several generations of family members.
Going to this day, full of heartache, blood and tears, is by no means the work of one person and one effort.
"You mean I can be bolder and not afraid of making mistakes?"
"Yes, you have to give everyone a chance to do it. The more opportunities you earn, the more people will jump up. Just like fish in a pond, when you throw fish food in, some fish will jump out eagerly. Grab to eat."
Grandpa Li led him the way.
Gu Lei pinched his chin and searched for a while, then he understood what to do.
"Then shall I dry the embroidery shop?"
"That's right, one person can't do everything, and our family still has to do it together."
"Okay, when I go back, Zhang Luo's sisters-in-law will do it."
"There are many people in the family, and Yu'er's idea is right. You need money to eat, drink, and scatter, and you don't need money to raise your children and grandchildren. If you become a clan, you will understand your thoughts. Seeing your hard work, people's hearts are not cold for a day. It can’t be warmed up in one day.”
"Yes, I feel it now."
Gu Lei is already exhausted, he can understand the depression, helplessness and despair of his father back then.
"Your mother is a good woman. Anyone can blame her, but you can't. She just doesn't have the talent to take on the burden of the Guhou Mansion. She is suitable for living a small life behind closed doors like your third aunt. No one expected that the late emperor would Such a trick might be a catastrophe for the Gu family."
Grandpa Li was twirling the jade Buddha beads in his hand, which was picked up by his granddaughter for him to play with.
"The core of the Gu family's problem is that they are not united enough. Although the clan's wife is wrong, it is not all because of the women. It is because the Gu family has left many problems that have existed in the family for many years and have not been cleared up."
"Don't look at the unity of the Li family now. When you are young, you don't see that there were a lot of problems in your uncle's family when he was young."
"Back then, your Uncle Li's martial arts skills and your uncle were equal figures, but for the sake of the boss, he chose to return to the previous dynasty to earn a future, and to leave a way for him, and he chose to give in without hesitation. Why did you give in? The family is not united enough, and there are too many problems , the direct descendants need to stand up and sort out and preside over the overall situation."
"I have been guarding the northwest all year round and can't go home. Military merit cannot replace everything. Instead, it will make them think that they can go sideways when they go out. They need a direct descendant who has strength, responsibility, and a city heart to stand up to manage the clan and restrain the clan."
Grandpa Li told Gu Lei without hesitation that the Li family had also gone through detours and sacrificed a lot to get to where they are today.
"If you don't give anything in return, if you don't say it, it doesn't mean you don't know. The second child worked for our father and son in the previous dynasty. He asked for food and military pay. The frontiers of the previous dynasty were inseparable. The family management could not be left behind. The second child gave all his efforts. "
"Giving the opportunity to make military achievements to the brothers of the tribe time and time again, so that more uncles and brothers in the family can gain future and face. With his ability, he could have improved to a higher level. He chose to give up high officials and generous salary for the Li family."
"The second child is gone, the boss's heart hurts terribly, but he has no time to sink, he has to take care of the whole Li family, and Yu'er has nightmares along the way, you think he doesn't know, so what if he knows, so that Yu'er can't stop Isn't it hard to be sad?"
Grandpa Li took a deep breath, "Yu'er and the fourth child were both taught by your second uncle. If I don't let her kill Geng Li, this anger will be contained in my heart."
"The reason why the Li family has come to this day is because their brothers have sacrificed a lot for each other. It is the direct line that has united the clan for ten years and devoted everything to achieve this step."
"You have studied in the Li family for many years. You know that the father of the fourth, fifth, and third child died on the battlefield in the early years. More than half of the group were orphans and widows back then, how are we doing now, we are worthy of the entrustment of our uncles and brothers."
Gu Lei listened with a solemn expression, and listened carefully to the instructions.
"One person's strength cannot support a family. Your uncle's reputation and achievements were laid out by Li Jiaerlang with his life."
Grandpa Li twirled the beads, and after calming down for a while, he said again, "Son, you have to contact your uncles and brothers, and think about them sincerely. Only by twisting together as one can the whole family go further."
"Look at how much your grandmother, your aunt, and Yu'er have paid for the family. Yu'er also learned from her grandmother. You don't have to do anything else. You must visit the old, weak, widowed and widowed families in person. I'm afraid that the slaves will treat the old and the weak badly if they don't worry about it."
"Whether a daughter of the Li family gets married, regardless of the concubines, the direct line must fill in the dowry. There must be a gift for the married woman at the end of the three festivals and six rites. here."