Chapter 205 Complete
"Are there any girls in the Gu family who know the rules? They don't care whether they are side branches or direct branches. The key is to be able to show them off. The first time you show up, you want a girl who is outstanding. If you go out for the first time, you will be spoiled. You won't be able to introduce them in the future."
Li Yu muttered something.
His family came in the same way. First, the dignified and dignified girl came out to the banquet by following the rules, and invited the wives to see it. After getting good reviews and approval, she took other girls out to introduce.
Girl’s reputation is too important. Excellent sons and daughters and family have more benefits. They can make you live well, and you won’t be entangled with bad people and bad things.
It's not the style of a big family to get divorced at every turn. There are too many big families involved. Everyone has to do things for the family and sacrifice for the family. No one can avoid it.
Unless it is a last resort, the aristocratic family does not allow reconciliation. If reconciliation is made, the meaning of marriage will be lost. Instead, there will be multiple enemies.
"I went back and asked my uncle and grandma. The girls all followed her and the third aunt to learn housekeeping and family affairs. She knows best."
"Well, you have chosen someone to tell me that there will be banquets every year and year after year."
"OK."
"The girl is getting older, so it's time to say kiss. There is no serious wife in charge of the family, but I am really worried. I am a man and it is not easy to ask too many questions."
Gu Lei realized more and more the depression and hard work of his grandfather not marrying the right wife.
Dad has never been happy all his life, and he rarely sees a cheerful smile on his face.
Gu Lei knew his father was serious and upright since he was sensible. On the contrary, the family atmosphere of the Li family is more relaxed and happy.
Brother Li is upright and serious, full of deterrence, but he is very gentle and soft at home. He is filial and obedient to his elders, very patient with his children, and he is even more obedient to his aunt, and never puts on airs.
On the contrary, the relationship between his father and mother is cold and alienated, his father hides from his mother intentionally or unintentionally, there is little warmth between husband and wife, and the relationship with his uncle and aunt is completely incomparable.
Probably this is why he likes to play at Li's house.
I didn’t quite understand it when I was a child, but I also understood it when I grew up. My father doesn’t love my mother, and my mother likes my father but hits the wall repeatedly.
Awkward feelings, cold relationship, difficult to get along.
"I've been thinking about my dad recently. In fact, I have complicated feelings for my dad. I always want to be close to him, but he is always far away from me."
Gu Lei lay on the imperial couch and looked at the roof, feeling a little depressed.
"When it comes to teaching, my uncle is more like my father, while my father is like a relative who is away from home. He also teaches. He is too busy to take care of me."
"When I find time, I will also ask about my knowledge and martial arts, but I seldom have a long talk with me. It is better that I have a close relationship with my uncle. When I encounter difficulties, I will go to my uncle to complain and act like a spoiled child, but I will not find my own father. "
Gu Lei also had his own pain and confusion, and the feelings of his parents also affected him.
Perhaps Boss Gu also saw this, so he sent his son to Boss Li. What he valued most was the upbringing of the Li family. There is another reason that cannot be ignored, that is, Boss Li and his wife are loving, and the family environment is better than that of his family. Relaxed and joyful, the positive influence on children is indispensable.
Li Yu grew up surrounded by love. Like Li Boss, he is responsible and responsible, and can give people warmth and strength.
Gu Lei’s love comes from the Li family. He is more dependent on Boss Li. Although he can’t say it out loud, he actually thinks that Boss Li and his wife are more responsible than his parents and give him more fatherly love.
The Li family didn’t treat him as an outsider, he was still punished for making mistakes, and he was not welcome to order him to work.
Li Yu sighed lightly. He still cared a lot, and had resentment towards his parents.
"Brother Lei, Uncle Gu sent you to the Li family to make up for you. He made up for you in his own way. They couldn't give you all the love of a father and a mother. My parents gave it to you."
"Really?"
Gu Lei turned his head to look at her, with hidden fragility and pain in his eyes.
"Don't you know, your father proposed marriage for you a long time ago and wanted to marry me. My father said that the child is too young, and he will talk about it when he grows up. It is inappropriate to say it now."
"..."
Gu Lei was not surprised, but there were still some ripples in his heart.
"He fought for you for what you wanted a long time ago. He saw that Aunt Gu's thoughts were not on you. He sent you to the Li family to let you learn to love, know how to love, and follow my father to learn responsibility and responsibility. He expects a lot from you, and it's not up to you to judge your parents' feelings."
"I'm not targeting anyone. I think your parents are right. Your mother didn't marry the Gu family. She was also a hard-working person whose fate was arranged like a chess piece. They all envied her good life. No one else understands the suffering.”
Li Yu thinks that women are suffering all their lives, and it is right for women to help women.
"She is obviously just a little woman, she just wants to watch over her husband and children to live a peaceful life, and she doesn't want to be the wife of a wealthy family. This is not what she wants."
"Let's talk about Uncle Gu, he lost the love of his life, the Gu family was suppressed, he was depressed all his life, trapped in the capital, his military achievements were brilliant enough but he had no chance to go to the battlefield again, he was suppressed all his life, and he was surrounded by a lover who comforted him Not at all, his lover is dead, he is not qualified to worship, in what capacity should he worship?"
Li Yu spoke with a peaceful attitude.
"You can't empathize with this suffering, don't resent your parents, they are too bitter."
Gu Lei turned his head away, wiped his face with his hands, and remained silent.
He didn’t understand it before, but he understands it now, and he also understands love.
Li Yu sat beside the imperial concubine's couch, grabbed the back of his neck and played with him to calm him down.
Gu Lei suddenly turned his head and buried his head in her arms, holding her waist, choked up and said: "My father can actually survive, he doesn't want to live anymore, I remember his eyes, he didn't move or hide, he deliberately Please die..."
He hissed and growled.
"I dare not tell grandpa..."
"Is it possible, grandpa already understood, this may be the last time grandpa loved his son."
Li Yu raised his head and his eyes were red. Seeing him so sad, he felt uncomfortable and felt aching.
"His most outstanding, most proud, and most dependent son, devoted all his efforts to what his son thinks, how can I be a father who doesn't know, this is the last thing he can do for his son, if he can't keep it, just Complete them..."
Li Yu still remembers that the day Uncle Gu brought Gu Lei here, he deliberately distracted them from talking with his father.
She went back to get something, and the cat eavesdropped at the door.
Uncle Gu said to his father: "Brother, please help me raise Brother Lei. From now on, he will be your nephew. He accepts punishment and accepts punishment without any complaints."
"Why do you..."
"My heart is dead... No need to persuade me anymore. I live only for my family and my father and son. I have lost my beloved and have no face to go... If one day I die, don't save me. I look forward to finding her with ease." .”
(end of this chapter)