Chapter 78 Girl, have you thought about getting married?
Old lady Zhu has had a smooth life in her life. If there is anything that goes wrong, it is the eldest grandson.
I don’t know if Zhu’s family is too smooth. After several generations, Zhu Weidong has such a problem.
At this moment, Mrs. Zhu said with deep emotion, "Life is suffering, and you don't know what will happen to you, so don't be too obedient. You can refuse what you don't want to do. Life is your own, not for pleasing others. The most important thing to do in life is to be kind to yourself.”
Ji Ling put away the handkerchief, "Grandma Zhu, thank you. I was the one who implicated you and got hurt, and then asked you to comfort me. I am too ignorant."
Mrs. Zhu smiled and said, "If a person has no temper, what's the point of living? When I was your age, I once lost my temper with my family and went to the monastery in the mountain to live for a month. Waiting for me to go back home. The elders thought I was gone, sick fell ill, saw me go back, they were angry and annoyed, and threw me a feather duster, my mother smoked and scolded, and hugged me after smoking, and our mother and I cried together."
Ji Ling's eyes widened.
Her appearance made Mrs. Zhu laugh even harder, "Didn't expect that? Can you guess why I went to live in the mountains for a month? In our time, marriages were arranged by the family. In terms of family matters, I am a person who has studied in school and accepted new ideas. After pursuing love, I competed with my family and ran into the mountains."
"The marriage ended later?" Ji Ling was also fascinated and couldn't help asking.
Old Mrs. Zhu shook her head, her smile became sweeter, "I'll follow the arrangement of my family and get married. This is your current Grandpa Zhu."
Ji Ling opened her mouth wide.
Mrs. Zhu said, "I can't figure out why I still listen to the family's arrangement in the end, right?"
Ji Ling nodded. Although Grandma Zhu only said a few words, she could feel the love of the Zhu family for her. After running away for a month, it is impossible to force her to accept the marriage arranged by the family when she comes back.
Mrs. Zhu said, "When I was studying in school, there was a classmate who admired each other very much and understood each other's intentions. My family suddenly arranged a marriage for me. I resisted and ran out. When I came back a month later, he had already obeyed." The family arranged a marriage. The Zhu family was not ashamed when they heard about my resistance to the marriage, and your grandpa Zhu came to persuade my parents not to embarrass me."
"Girl, you are still young and don't understand a truth. When you are young, you want to marry love. Later, you only realize when you are mature. What you want to marry is character and self-cultivation, responsibility and responsibility." Mrs. Zhu said with emotion, " Your Grandpa Zhu is such a person, and after we got married, I realized that the love I thought was not love at all."
Ji Ling listened intently, "Grandma Zhu, you are amazing."
Mrs. Zhu held her hand, "So look, how can you be willful when you are wronged and run out? That is a normal human reaction, and it is not your fault that caused things later, so don't take the fault on yourself , how tiring it is to always think about life like this.”
"Grandma Zhu, thank you." Ji Ling lowered her head ashamedly, "You saved me, but I haven't repaid you yet, but instead let you comfort me. I'm so stupid."
After living two lifetimes, she still needs the old man who shielded her from the knife to comfort her.
"I, I like seeing you young people." The old lady Zhu smiled and narrowed her eyes, and half-jokingly said, "Girl, it's not easy for you to repay me. Marry my grandson and be my grandson-in-law."
When Ji Ling heard this, Zhu Weidong's face popped into her mind.
The old lady Zhu smiled, and asked unintentionally, "Girl, have you thought about the major events in your life?"
"No." Ji Ling really didn't think about it.
"That's not okay, it's time to think about it now." The old lady Zhu disappeared with a smile, and sighed, "My health is getting worse and worse, and I don't know how long I can survive. The only wish is for my grandchildren to get married early. , I feel at ease even if I leave."
Ji Ling is not easy to answer this question. The Zhu family knows that the conditions are good. How can it be difficult for such a family to find a grandson-in-law? It is nothing more than the grandchildren do not want to start a family.
Feeling Grandma Zhu hold her hand tightly, Ji Ling looked over suspiciously, only to see Grandma Zhu staring at her hesitantly.
She asked, "Grandma Zhu, what's wrong?"
"Girl, you know Weidong. He is twenty-eight years old and hasn't gotten married yet. Do you know why?"
Ji Ling had a bad feeling in her heart, and opened her mouth to say 'I don't want to know', but she met Grandma Zhu's worried eyes, and nodded softly.
She said, "He's sick."
Finally, I added another sentence in my mind: "No?"
Old lady Zhu froze for a moment, and forgot to close her opened mouth.
Ji Ling found out what was in her head, and immediately made amends, "Go and have a look, I said no, go and have a look."
Mrs. Zhu said suspiciously, "He's not sick. Even the women who have been on blind dates have looked down on him. He's cold-tempered and not talkative. Which girl would like him? If it weren't for my grandson, I wouldn't like his kind Cold temperament."
Ji Ling wiped off her sweat secretly, she was no longer curious about Zhu Weidong's matter, and she was afraid of talking too much and saying the wrong thing.
"Xiaoling, do you want to think about being the daughter-in-law of the Zhu family now?" The old lady Zhu said with an amiable smile, "I know it's a bit of a favor to mention this suddenly at this time, but I think This is a good choice. Weidong has a good job, and I know my grandson's character best, so I don't have to pick this one. He has self-cultivation and responsibility, so he is a good choice."
Ji Ling was startled by the sudden change of subject. How could she tell her about the matchmaker? The other party was Zhu Weidong.
"Your father had an accident. I asked Yao Wu to take me there just now. I didn't mean to overhear your mother and daughter talking. If you marry Wei Dong, let Wei Dong solve your father's surgery and your schooling, according to your mother's words." Speaking of which, it can be considered that you have paid back what you owed, right?" The old lady Zhu changed the subject, "Girl, don't think too much about this, I really like you and want you to be my grandson-in-law, I know that too My grandson is good, you will definitely be happy if you marry him, it is under these premise that I tell you this, and today I am ashamed."
Ji Ling had calmed down from the shock, she held the old lady Zhu's hand back, "Grandma Zhu, don't worry, I know you have no other intentions, I should be the one who should be embarrassed, your family conditions are good, you can find a good family background People with better conditions are better. It’s just a matter of marriage, grandma should let Zhu Weidong decide for himself.”
"I can make up my mind about Weidong's affairs. Don't underestimate yourself. In my eyes, you are good. Are you willing?" Mrs. Zhu also emphasized, "You must not agree to it just because you want to repay me for saving you." .”
The word "repay" is extremely heavy.
Ji Ling: Grandma, don't imply that I will repay you, okay?
(end of this chapter)