The misfortune of childhood made her have the best love and memories of the short-lived family relationship in childhood.
My biological parents are very different from uncles, aunts and other elders. Although her uncle and aunt took her in, they treated her as an outsider after all. She has never been able to integrate into the family of her uncle and aunt.
Perhaps it was this relatively indifferent and cruel family environment that allowed her to learn to be independent since she was a child.
Even if Zhou Can and her confirmed their relationship, she still insisted on repaying the money lent to her.
"If you want, we can spend money to build a house here, and come back with you every year to stay for a few days, so that you can relive the happiness and beauty of childhood." Zhou Can stepped forward and gently embraced her shoulders, Said with pity.
"Forget it, let's keep those beautiful childhood memories in our hearts! If we built a house here, we would not be able to live here. Some memories are hard to remember, and are only suitable to be kept in the deep memory forever. In the dead of night, when the scene is full of emotion, I occasionally take it out and recall it."
She shook her head slightly and said.
"The persimmons look unripe now, are they edible? Will they be very astringent?"
Zhou Can changed the subject, trying not to let her feel the pain of her parents' absence.
"It's edible! You can't eat it right away, you need to soak it in clean water for a while. When I was a child, my dad often soaked green persimmons in lime water. It tastes very sweet and crisp. But I don't know if eating it is harmful? "
She still remembers things from her childhood very clearly.
Many childhood memories can never be forgotten for a lifetime.
Many parents are busy with work and ask confinement mothers to take care of their children as soon as they are born. Apart from providing their children with superior economic conditions and an environment for learning and growth, they rarely accompany their children to grow up. This will lead to indifference in family affection, and it will be difficult for children to really get close to their parents when they grow up.
In fact, only blood relationship maintains the family relationship between parents and children, which is far from enough.
Because of the lack of emotional foundation, family relationship will become very fragile.
Human emotions are the most complex.
For a lover, for a close friend, we can give almost anything. Many times it is unconditional trust, this is the charm of feelings.
Whether it is love or friendship, including family affection, the ultimate core is actually based on feelings, and the establishment of mutual trust and close relationship.
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Therefore, after parents give birth to a child, it is not just about providing superior economic conditions.
The deepest love for children is not how much money you give, but companionship.
"Lime water mainly contains calcium carbonate, calcium hydroxide, and water. It is a mixture and usually has strong alkalinity. The stomach contains a certain amount of gastric acid, which is usually acidic. Persimmons soaked in lime water, if only a small amount Eating it will cause a neutralization reaction between stomach acid and lime water, and generally there will be no symptoms of discomfort. However, for health reasons, it is best to eat less or not to eat.”
Zhou Can answered her doubts from a professional medical perspective.
Children have a strong metabolic ability, even if they eat a little food that is harmful to the body, they can be metabolized quickly.
But after all, it is still harmful to the body and there are risks.
So try to eat less or not eat.
This is the same reason that smoking is harmful to health.
Many foods with toxic side effects do invisible harm to the body.
"If you like to eat, we can pick some back when we leave. Soaking them directly in clean water should achieve the same effect, at most, the soaking time will need to be longer."
Zhou Can said to her with a smile.
"OK!"
Su Qianqian really likes the feeling of being pampered by her lover, which makes her feel very sweet.
"Let's go, let's say hello to uncle and aunt first! We country people like to watch the excitement, and there will definitely be many people around later."
Su Qianqian has already noticed that many villagers are standing not far away looking at her and Zhou Can.
The two walked towards the bungalow.
It seems that it should have been built for a few years, and it is quite new.
There is a concrete floor outside, which occupies a large area.
The gate is closed, people should not be at home.
"My uncle and aunt may have gone to work in the field." Su Qianqian called a few times in dialect outside, but got no response.
Only a big yellow dog kept barking at them in the house where sundries and firewood were piled up next to them.
"Why don't we go to the field and look for it!"
"OK!"
Zhou Can readily agreed.
Compared with Su Qianqian, Zhou Can is very happy. He has no worries about food and clothing since he was a child. He is a rich second generation and has never experienced the hard life in the countryside.
He felt very novel about life in the country.
"Who are you looking for?"
A slightly old middle-aged man's voice came.
The two turned around and looked not far away, only to see a middle-aged and elderly man in his sixties walking straight with a large bundle of rice straw on his back.
"Uncle!"
Su Qianqian called out in dialect.
Zhou Can can understand it even when she is nearby. Their dialect here is somewhat similar to Sichuan dialect.
"Oh, are you a tiger girl?"
The man obviously didn't recognize Su Qianqian.
"It's me! Uncle, this is my boyfriend Zhou Can. We came here specially to see you and auntie." Su Qianqian hurriedly introduced Zhou Can's identity to his uncle.
"Hi uncle!"
Zhou Can took out a pack of cigarettes that he had prepared a long time ago, opened it and hurried forward to hand the cigarettes.
In the countryside, cigarettes are a great weapon in dealing with people.
It is also a kind of etiquette and courtesy.
"The young man looks handsome! Come and sit inside! Your aunt will be back soon, ask her to cook for you."
The man stared at Zhou Can carefully, and couldn't help boasting.
Zhou Can is tall, sunny and handsome, plus his net worth has already exceeded 100 million, he has a successful career, and he is also decent, so he has a very good temperament. Not to mention being in such a rural place, even if you go to a provincial capital city and stand among the crowd, you are equally outstanding.
The man took out a key from the window sill, opened the door, and invited two people to sit down.
The furniture in the house was extremely old, and the stool was covered with a thick layer of black dirt. Zhou Can didn't have any bad habits of coddling, so he just sat on it.
If you are wearing expensive clothes, you will definitely hesitate to sit down.
In case of some stubborn stains, dry cleaning can't wash them off at all, and the clothes will be useless.
"Uncle, are you and your aunt healthy?"
Su Qianqian was obviously a little restrained, and she didn't feel natural and comfortable when she returned to her mother's house.
In fact, this family can't see the slightest trace left for her.
"Your aunt has a herniated lumbar intervertebral disc, and she will suffer from low back pain after doing too much heavy work. She went to the big hospital in the county for treatment several times, but it didn't work. My blood pressure is a little high, and my kidney seems to have some problems. The doctor said it was chronic nephritis. , I don’t understand anyway, as long as the body can still move, I don’t bother to go to the doctor.”
Her uncle looked dark and seemed a little bloated.
With Zhou Can's current level of medical skills, he could tell at a glance that this man's kidney problem was not just a small problem, but probably a big problem.
The late stage of nephritis is actually uremia.
Basically, when it develops to the third stage, obvious and severe symptoms will appear. At this time, dialysis is required to maintain normal life needs.
Many rural people dare not go to the hospital when they are sick because of poor economic conditions and limited income.
Because they think that hospital visits are expensive.
Moreover, most of the middle-aged and elderly people in rural areas have a very low level of education, and their ideology is also particularly backward.
Tell them you can't eat this, and you can't eat that. You can't do this, and you can't do that, he will think you are crazy.
Also, people who do heavy physical work generally age faster.
As long as you get older, you will basically suffer from all kinds of diseases.
All debts accumulated when young will be liquidated when old. The body has its own set of mechanisms.
This is how the idiom "sickness from overwork" comes from.
"Go to the hospital if you're not feeling well! The hospitals in the county may be limited. You and your aunt can go to the big hospitals in the province." While Su Qianqian persuaded, she glanced at Zhou Can.
Her boyfriend is a doctor, a famous doctor in Tuya Hospital.
Uncle thinks that the hospitals in the county are big hospitals.
In Zhou Can's eyes, the hospitals in the county are at the level of grass-roots hospitals. It is much better than the township health center, but compared with the provincial top three hospitals, it is really not a star and a half.
"I'm too lazy to bother. Your aunt and I are almost sixty years old. How many years can we live? After spending the money, we still can't cure it. It's better to save more money for your brother."
The uncle shook his head and waved his hands again and again, basically accepting his fate.
Get ready to die.
This is also the true thinking of the vast majority of rural elderly.
I would rather die myself than drag my children down, but leave as much money as possible for my son.
This ideology is completely different from that of Western developed countries.
Parents in developed countries in the West work hard to cultivate their children when they are underage. After adulthood, let it live independently and support itself.
As for giving all their parents' money to their children, they have no such idea at all.
As long as the parents are alive, the parents' property belongs only to the parents. Travel when you need to travel, and shop when you need to shop. There is no such thing as in China, where parents spend money to help their sons buy a wedding house, car, and marry a wife.
In foreign countries, these are the children's own business.
Domestic grandparents, helping to take care of their grandchildren, are basically regarded as a matter of course by default. In foreign countries, leaving grandchildren with grandparents for more than two hours is considered unacceptable.
Because it will affect the lives of grandparents.
"Where's Su Jun? Has he gone to work outside?"
Su Qianqian asked.
Obviously, Su Jun is the son of Uncle and Aunt.
"Your brother used to work in a developed coastal city. Because he didn't have a diploma, he could only work as a waiter in a factory or a restaurant. He thought the salary was low and the work was tiring. He has worked in a car wash shop in the county for the past two years. You rarely come back , I will call him now and ask him to come back for a gathering."
As the uncle said, he took out an old-fashioned push-button mobile phone.
This kind of elderly phone has very few functions, basically it can only make and receive calls.
However, the elderly in rural areas like this kind of mobile phone very much. Because they feel cheap and have a long standby time. The function is simple and the operation will be easier.
It is really friendly to the elderly with low education level.
At this time, an old woman with a relatively short stature came in with a big basket and a **** on her shoulders.
The old woman's face was rather sinister, with eight hundred scheming in her eyes.
"Auntie!"
Su Qianqian hurriedly stood up and greeted with a smile.
Zhou Can also stood up.
"This is the boyfriend brought back by Huniu."
Uncle introduced a sentence to his wife.
"Hello, Auntie!"
Zhou Can greeted with a smile.
"Hello! Boy, please sit down!"
Aunt's small eyes stared at Zhou Can up and down, and the smile on her face was quite enthusiastic.
"Is that car on the side of the road yours?"
She is really interesting. When they meet, they will directly ask about the car instead of asking how Su Qianqian has been doing in the past few years.
"I rented it with money. It's not because I thought I've known Qianqian for several years, and now that I'm old enough to talk about marriage, I came here to propose marriage." Zhou Can replied.
After my aunt heard this, the enthusiasm on her face immediately faded a lot.
"It's rented! It will cost a lot of money, right?"
When she asked this question, she stared closely at Zhou Can's eyes.
"It's quite expensive. It costs 2,000 yuan to rent for three days, plus the gas fee. The driver's salary is 200 yuan per day." Zhou Can answered tightly.
The old country woman didn't even think about asking something strange from him.
"Oh, it costs several thousand, it's too expensive! Why spend this unjust money." Auntie said this as if it was her money. There was really a pained expression on his face.
"Qianqian, it's hard to go home, but you can stay longer. Auntie will clean up your room right away."
She turned her head and began to greet Su Qianqian warmly.
Uncle called Su Qianqian's nickname Huniu, but aunt called her Qianqian.
"Auntie, don't bother, we are going to leave tomorrow. Both Zhou Can and I have taken leave from the company, so we can't stay long."
Su Qianqian is not stupid either.
My old house was directly demolished by my uncle and aunt. When building a new house, they almost occupied most of her homestead. Walking into this house, there is no trace left for her at all.
To put it bluntly, she is an outsider.
Auntie is so hypocritical now, how could she fall into the trap?
"What are you talking about, kid? Aren't you already ready to talk about marriage? Your parents died early, and your uncle and I raised you up, and we hope you will live happily ever after. You have to stay and let us see See how this young man's character is and how well he treats you, so we can safely marry you to him! Everything is arranged by my aunt."
Auntie is extremely strong, UU Reading www. uukanshu.com directly raised the banner of the elders caring about the younger generation, and kept Su Qianqian behind.
Zhou Can sneered to himself when he heard it.
Su Qianqian was brought up from a young age? If Su Qianqian hadn't told Zhou Can about her childhood, Zhou Can would have believed this aunt's words.
Of course, this time he came to propose a marriage, Zhou Can will definitely follow the other party as much as possible.
After getting married, if uncles and aunts really want family affection and treat Su Qianqian as their own daughter, Zhou Can will find a way to help them heal their diseases. Give them a good old age life.
If you just use her as a tool for profit, all kinds of scheming, all kinds of calculations, then there is no need to be polite.
Give a little money, it's a settlement.
There will be no contact at all in the future.
"Auntie, we really can't stay here for a long time. You don't need to be busy. After a day's work, you must be exhausted. Sit down and have a rest!" Su Qianqian said to her again.