Chapter 787 Sympathy for men is the beginning of misfortune
"Suizi, you can command 'brother' to help you work, you are really good."
In Liu Yanan's heart, these brother-level figures are the bosses wherever they go, with a group of younger brothers behind them, calling the wind and the rain.
As a result, during the two days she came here, Yu Jingting not only helped Suizi take care of the child, but also cooked with Suizi. The young couple got together and whispered when they had nothing to do.
"The couple can't talk about who directs the other. The man dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside. This is the biggest lie. Marriage needs to have enough sense of participation to maintain stability."
"My mother-in-law always talks about the fact that old men can't go to the kitchen, and always says how hard her son is working outside, but when I didn't come out of the work unit, I was five yuan more than him a month. Why didn't she say that I worked hard? Woolen cloth?"
Suizi shrugged. She couldn't comment on the family affairs of this family, but for some mothers-in-law, the son was born by themselves, and the daughter-in-law was an outsider, so they naturally wanted to give birth to themselves. Yes will lose a lot.
"I think your mother-in-law is very good, and she can beat her son for you. When can I have such a mother-in-law—Suizi, do you think I can get a divorce?"
After chatting with Suizi yesterday, Liu Yanan stayed up half the night, thinking about what Suizi said over and over in his mind, and finally choked out two words, divorce.
"Now divorced, can you make your life better?"
Liu Yanan stopped talking.
In order to serve her father-in-law, she asked for a long vacation with the unit and offended the leader. After returning, she might not be able to specify how many shoes to give her, and she might be transferred to a very poor department.
Originally, based on her ability, she had a chance to be promoted, but her in-laws suppressed her with filial piety, saying that men dominate outside and women dominate inside, and women chasing careers are of no use.
Every time Shen Jun went to the hospital to take care of his father, he was reluctant. He felt that he was "working" for Liu Yanan, but it was clearly his own father!
The two of them had already arrived at the market while they were talking. Suizi locked the bicycle. When she saw the car parked beside her, Suizi was stunned for a moment. She didn't look away from the car until Liu Yanan pushed her.
Continue to talk to Liu Yanan:
"No matter what decision you make, it should be to make yourself live better. At this stage, whether you get divorced or not, it will not change your life very much."
"Yes, if I leave at this time, my colleagues in the unit must think that I am a bad woman who can't share weal and woe. Then my serving these days will be in vain."
The social circle of human relations is too small, and there is no possibility of changing jobs. If everyone says what they say, one person can block all the upward channels of Liu Yanan.
"So your current focus should not be divorce at all, or even marriage. In his current state, it is impossible for you to convince him with words. You might as well work **** your career. Your father-in-law is about to be discharged from the hospital. No matter how they coerce you, you have to insist on going back to work, get promoted and raise your salary, and then think about whether you can leave."
Liu Yanan, like Suizi, is a "new third class" technical secondary school student, the last batch of gold-bearing ones. These years, the unit still attaches great importance to it, but Suizi also understands that the good days are just a few years away, so don't hurry up Climb, the latter degree will not have much advantage.
"But I have offended the leader in order to serve my father-in-law."
Suizi locked the car, took Liu Yanan's arm, and whispered something in her ear. Liu Yanan was surprised, and his eyes couldn't hide the surprise.
"real?"
"Um."
What Suizi said was that the leadership part should be left to her.
Shen Liangyin has been doing well in the past few years. She got married last year. Although her partner is a little older, she holds great power in her hands and can talk.
Suizi admires Shen Liangyin for this. Her husband is almost 20 years older than her. It is impossible to say that it is love. When Shen Liangyin got married, Suizi went back to the wedding on purpose. Before the wedding, the two women had a drink pause.
In Shen Liangyin's words, in life, one always has to plan something.
She also wanted to picture a handsome young man full of yang, immersed in love every day, dreaming of mandarin ducks and butterflies, otherwise why did she fall in love with Yu Jingting back then.
But as I got older, I figured it out.
Love is an illusory thing, she can't find a second Yu Jingting, and she can't meet the love that makes her heart flutter.
It is still practical to seek money and power. If she can't find people, she will seek money.
I've been with everyone. Instead of being someone else's yellow-faced woman, it's better to find a safe backer for myself, and take the power of an old man, so that I can comfortably save twenty years of struggle.
Facts have proved that Shen Liangyin is indeed seeking benevolence and gaining benevolence, and put aside love. Now her life is very nourishing. The old man treats her like a baby bump. Shen Liangyin has a backer to show his ambitions in the mall. That patriarchal scumbag stepped on his feet and became Her Lady Queen alive.
This is what Suizi said, a woman who knows exactly what she wants will never have a miserable life.
Based on the relationship between Suizi and Shen Liangyin, helping Liu Yanan is just a matter of one sentence.
"But there is one thing, I will help you, you can't tell Shen Jun, I will only help you, Shen Jun, I don't care, you have to be mentally prepared, your career has improved, and you have opened up the gap with him, he and his family will Bombing you in turn, suppressing you."
Suizi could see very clearly that people like Shen Jun were not so bad, they were just plain ignorant.
On the one hand, I have to enjoy the bonus brought by my daughter-in-law and use it to pretend to be coercive, showing off to others that I have a powerful daughter-in-law, but when I close the door, I feel sour, and I can’t accept that my wife is better than my husband.
"Don't worry, I'll definitely listen to you." Liu Yanan's hope for life was ignited again, and he agreed.
Suizi just smiled and said nothing, not expressing her opinion on her lofty sentiments.
The wheel of life is always turning back and forth amidst contradictions and repetitions. She can only provide an opportunity for her friends when she was young. As for whether she is willing to turn forward or backward, it depends on whether Liu Yanan thinks about it. A kind of determination and skill.
Suizi planned to give Liu Yanan a kit when she was about to leave. In the kit, she wanted to put a note with a sentence written on it: Compassion for a man is the beginning of misfortune.
As long as women can engrave this sentence in their hearts, they will not have a miserable life.
When Suizi and Liu Yanan walked away, the window of a car parked next to Suizi's bicycle was also lowered.
Que Wuyu looked at the direction Suizi left, her pleasant voice seemed to be still echoing in her ears.
He heard what Suizi said to persuade Liu Yanan just now. Although he didn't hear the last few words that he whispered in his ear, he could hear the rest very clearly.
This girl is not only outstanding in appearance, but also has a terrifyingly clear thinking, but Suizi's sobriety in the world makes Que Wuyu fall into deep thought.
Why did she keep staring at his car just now?
He changed the car, and the glass of the car could not see the inside from the outside, but why did he feel that Suizi just said it to him on purpose?
It’s only 10 votes away from Jiageng. Does the little fairy not want to drain the author’s fungus?
(end of this chapter)