Chapter 133: , The last lesson of being a father (End)

When Su Aobai was pushed out of the operating room, he saw his family members waiting outside the operating room at first sight.

The minimally invasive surgery was performed under local anesthesia, so he was very conscious at the moment and did not feel any pain. Although everything was within his plan, he still showed a surprised expression.

"Why are you here?"

There was some confusion on his face.

"It's not that Pengfei saw the medical case you put in the drawer of the room. Let alone the child, my little sister and I were also terrified. Brother, I didn't mean you. You are so old anyway. You did this It's too unreliable, if you worry about affecting your child's high school entrance examination, it's fine to hide it from him, you shouldn't hide it from me and my little sister."

Su Liubai was worried and angry at the same time.

"That's right, if you tell us, we can also arrange time to deliver food to you. The food in the hospital is not good."

Su Qinbai also added on the side.

"It's not a major problem, it's just a minor operation, and it doesn't affect your actions. Besides, you all have to work and have children to take care of. Why bother you?"

Su Aobai said indifferently.

"Okay, big brother, don't argue with us. We will take turns bringing you meals starting today. Don't worry about Pengfei. You can eat and live at our house for the next few days. Let his uncle drive you to school."

Su Qinbai said with a firm attitude.

"Yeah brother, although it's just a minor operation, it still hurts the blood after all. You have to eat some good tonic for the past few days. My younger sister and brother-in-law have to visit the store on weekdays. Most of the time, their family eats Take out a few bites. I usually cook for Liu Bai and Peng Cheng. These days, I just cook more nutritious meals and share them. It’s not troublesome. Leave it to me. .”

Wen Fang is a smart woman, her decent words won grateful eyes from her husband and sister-in-law.

"How about this, tell me when you're done cooking, I'll ask Li Yong to get it, and then bring it to the elder brother."

One of the two is responsible for cooking, and the other is responsible for delivering food.

This time, without waiting for Su Aobai's refusal, the younger brother and sister's family made arrangements.

As for Su Pengfei, he was also invited by Wen Fang to live in his home temporarily, so he could be with Su Pengcheng as company. Both of them were junior high school students. Well, I can check for leaks and make up for my cousin during the sprint stage, and I can rest assured that I live at my uncle's house and Su Aobai is hospitalized.

Now that it's all said and done, Su Aobai naturally has no way to refuse.

But he didn't let his younger brother and sister stay in the hospital for too long, since he has nothing to do anyway, they either have to work or open a shop, there's no need to delay their business because of him.

As for Su Pengfei, he was left behind. Anyway, he has been asked for leave. Now the school's courses are mainly about reviewing and consolidating old knowledge. Taking a day off will not have much impact. Send him to school, he probably doesn't want to study.

It's better to stay and talk to his father.

After Su Liubai and others left, the ward became quiet for an instant, the bed next door was empty, and there were only their father and son in the room.

"Are you scared?"

After a long silence, Su Aobai spoke.

Su Pengfei remained silent.

"Actually, when I first checked out this defect, I also prepared for the worst."

He already knew about Su Pengfei's breast cancer oolong from his younger siblings.

"Do you know what was the first thing I thought of at that time?"

Hearing these words, Su Pengfei finally raised his head and looked at him. The young man's eye sockets were still red and swollen, which showed how miserable he was crying before.

"I'm thinking, if I have cancer, which is in the middle and advanced stages that are difficult to cure, and if I won't live long, how will you live!"

Su Aobai's eyes were deep, and he looked at the young man in front of him tenderly.

"For a long time, I have only taught you how to read, because I think it is for your own good. After more than ten years of hard study, you will be responsible for the rest of your life in the future if you go to a good university and find a good job. When I might be dying, I realize that those are things in the future, what I need to think about right now is how you should live, I didn't teach you how to take care of yourself, I didn't teach you how to live, if I What are you going to do now?"

This passage directly explained the reason for his huge transformation during this period.

"Then I thought, I still have a lot of things I haven't done with you, such as going to the amusement park with you, going swimming with you, playing ball with you... I always thought that there would be plenty of time in the future, and I could put all these things in the future Do it, but the reality is that there are many things, if you don't do it now, you may not have the opportunity to complete it in the future, my child, if he has never had such an experience in his life, will he be very sad?"

Su Aobai spoke very slowly, but his calm and breezy tone made people feel sad.

Su Pengfei's life experience is not enough, and his mentality is not mature enough, but he can fully feel his state of mind at that time through his description.

His chest was stuffy... He didn't expect that when his father suspected that he might have a terminal illness, everything that came to his mind immediately was about him.

He has always known that his father has paid a lot for him, and now he is more sure that his father loves him more than his own life.

"Actually, Dad always knew that you studied very hard and I made you too tired, but I always told myself in my heart that I was doing it for your own good. When you grow up and work, you will I will understand my father's good intentions, but it was not until I realized that I might die at any time that I suddenly understood..."

Su Aobai looked at him.

"Back then, I swore by your mother's hospital bed that I would take good care of you, but now it seems that I have made you live a miserable life every day under the banner of what is best for you. I hope you can live an easy life in the future , so making your childhood miserable and gloomy, is it right or wrong?"

In fact, it is difficult to have a correct answer to this question.

Some children lived a relaxed life when they were young. After they grow up and work, they may complain that their parents were not strict enough and they did not study hard enough, so that it is difficult to find a job after entering the society as an adult. Some children were treated harshly when they were young. When I grew up, I got a good job with a high salary by virtue of my hard work when I was studying, and I lived a comfortable life, but I was always worried about the depression and restraint of my childhood...

But it is definitely wrong to put pressure on the original body to this extent, especially when he has clearly realized that Su Pengfei is not a material for studying, and he always compares him with his genius cousin, it is even more wrong. .

The composition of this society is very complicated. There will always be a minority at the top of the pyramid, and the vast majority are mediocre beings.

Mediocrity is just the norm!

"No, I'm not good enough."

Su Pengfei lowered his head in frustration. If he was as smart as Pengcheng, Dad wouldn't need to worry about these problems at all.

"But I'm not as good as your uncle."

Su Aobai shook his head, and then asked sadly, "Because I'm not as good as your uncle, do you think it's better for him to be your father?"

"of course not!"

Su Pengfei stood up abruptly, clasped his hands tightly, and said firmly.

"why?"

Su Aobai asked back.

"Because you are father."

Su Pengfei was clumsy and couldn't speak very pleasant words, but he thought of many, many pictures in his mind.

The father who got up earlier than him every day, the father who carefully copied all his wrong questions and looked for the same type of exercises after he went to bed, the father who always brought him lunch no matter the weather, the father who took care of him non-stop when he was by his side...

He is a father that no one can replace, and he really loves him very much.

Su Aobai's eyes completely faded from the harshness and harshness of the past, leaving only tenderness and tolerance.

It was also these words that completely relieved Su Pengfei.

He is an ordinary person among thousands of people in this world, but he is also the only ordinary one of his father.

*****

During the high school entrance examination, Su Pengfei performed better than in his previous life, and was admitted to an ordinary high school.

After the high school entrance examination, Su Aobai took him to travel around for half a month, and in the rest of the time, he enrolled in some specialty classes. Unfortunately, he was very stupid and lacked spirituality and understanding in any aspect, so he gave up.

In the three years of high school, Su Pengfei studied hard, but his grades were still in the middle and lower reaches. Fortunately, he performed exceptionally well in the college entrance examination, got into a fairly good college, and chose a good major.

During college, he was still ordinary. He barely learned some professional knowledge, but he was not proficient in it.

After graduating successfully, because of the difficult employment environment, but because of the college diploma, the job he found was not good, but because the company is in Hangzhou, and the relationship is close to home, it saves the cost of rent, and the monthly salary is in addition to Necessary expenses can also be saved.

Although he is not very talented, but he is hardworking enough, his boss likes him more, and his salary has been raised twice in the few years since graduation, and his monthly income has finally reached the threshold of individual tax. He was also introduced by his boss to meet his current wife, Yu Yu. .

Yu Yu is also a local girl in Hangzhou. She is not tall. She is ordinary but attractive and has a quiet temper. She is the niece of Su Pengfei's boss. She works as a clerk in another company in the same building, and her academic income is the same as that of Su Pengfei. quite.

Both of them have good tempers, and they lived their lives with a lot of business, and they quickly reconciled when they had quarrels occasionally. Although their incomes are not high, because they are locals, they don’t have the burden of mortgages, so life is not difficult. .

Among the other children of the Su family, Su Pengcheng has always been a top student. He graduated from Huaqing with a full scholarship to study at an Ivy League school. After that, he stayed in Germany to work and rarely returned to China. However, after settling down, he always proposed to take his parents to live in Germany. Unfortunately, Su Liubai and his wife rejected them on the grounds that they were more accustomed to life in China.

Li Lanlan was admitted to Shouying, because she was a small Internet celebrity since she was a child, and her initial resources were better than many classmates in her class. Now she is also a somewhat famous fourth- and fifth-tier star. When I got home, it was Li Jingjing. Although she had the same face as her sister, her temper was gentler and quieter, and she didn't like to show off. Now she is a well-established kindergarten teacher and stays with her parents.

From this point of view, Su Qinbai is the luckiest among the brothers and sisters. The children not only gave them face, but also have a good reputation, but Li Jingjing's company can't replace Li Lanlan's share after all. Most of the time, they can only use the TV and mobile phones. video to ease the missing of this daughter.

These years, Su Aobai never thought of earning enough money like in those worlds before. Now he is a little old man with his own house and some savings. It's very simple, Su Pengfei can't keep too much money.

Even buying a house and asking Su Pengfei to collect the rent is not enough. With so many lifetimes of experience, Su Aobai has seen too many fraudulent methods that are hard to guard against. The simplest example is which area will be demolished, and it will not take long for the demolition money to be received. For a long time, I can always hear that so and so gambled online and was cheated out of the demolition funds by means such as fairy jumping.

For some, having too much is dangerous.

Now he lives in a small house of more than 70 square meters. They did not want the house of more than 120 square meters that was originally intended to be used as a wedding house for the couple. Another set of more than 70 square meters, renting out the one of more than 100 square meters, the monthly rent is several thousand, which is almost half a month's salary for each of them.

Su Aobai didn't give them all the rent of that big house, he took half of it himself, treating it as a pension, and gave the other half to them, letting them slowly figure out how to manage money and invest.

The two sets of houses of more than 70 square meters are located upstairs and downstairs in the same building. Most of the time, the couple live their own lives. Occasionally, they go to the old man's place to eat and chat. can arrive quickly.

Su Liubai and his wife, who came to visit occasionally, would be envious when they saw the young couple carrying fruit milk upstairs and urging the old man to eat health products such as fish oil. Although Su Pengfei was not promising, he was able to stay with his parents.

But let them make a choice, they will still choose Su Pengcheng, a child who has great promise and makes them look good.

It can only be said that there are too few and too few people who have the best of both worlds, and people can't be greedy for everything.

*****

"Last month we issued an extra high temperature subsidy. The income is 4800. Your salary has also increased by 200. Now it is 5300. The two of us add up to 10100. The fuel cost has increased. In fact, we should buy a car for 70,000 to 80,000. The tram can save a lot of money every year, forget it, buy everything, let’s talk about the next car, and water, electricity and gas... We saved 6500 last month! It’s great!”

This is not counting the rental income that their father gave them.

Yu Yu was sitting in the co-pilot's seat, holding a mobile phone to calculate their savings last month, plus the previous savings and the gift money received at the wedding, the young couple's small coffers have already saved 300,000 yuan.

She couldn't help touching her stomach. With these savings, even if she is pregnant now, she won't worry about the lack of her income and the expenses of having one more gold swallowing beast in the future.

Listening to his wife's calculation of last month's expenses, Su Pengfei didn't feel troublesome at all. He felt that this kind of ordinary life was very happy.

"Husband, I want to eat durian."

Although Yu Yu is saving money in a planned way, she will not treat herself too badly. Last month, the deposit plan was overfulfilled, so she thinks she should reward herself.

"My colleague recommended a fruit shop to me. Their durians are very sweet. Let's buy them later when we pass by. By the way, I can buy one more. Dad likes it too."

She acted like a baby to Su Pengfei.

"Okay, use your mobile phone to navigate the location. By the way, the grapes are also on the market now. I remember that my parents like to eat them. I will see if the grapes are sweet later. I will buy a box for my parents."

The one Yu Yu said loved to eat durian was Su Pengfei's father, and the parents Su Pengfei said obviously referred to Yu Yu's parents.

A harmonious husband and wife relationship also needs to be managed. Yu Yu knows that Su Pengfei attaches great importance to his father, so no matter what he buys, he remembers his father-in-law's share. Similarly, because Su Pengfei values his wife, he also respects his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Hearing Su Pengfei's words, Yu Yu's smile became even sweeter.

Now life is really happy!

*****

After leaving this world, Su Aobai felt a lot.

As a parent, nurturing is a responsibility, and education is a responsibility. It is the dream of every parent to raise a child, and it is also a compulsory course for parents to accept the mediocrity of their children.

He is ready to enter the next world.

"The host has already experienced nine worlds. In Buddhism, nine is the extreme number, and every nine cycles, repeating itself. The host should have realized that the nine worlds you have experienced are not other people's lives, but you have forgotten. the previous cycle."

The system's answer did not bring too many surprises to Su Aobai, because he had a premonition.

"Does the host remember what I said when I first bound you?"

In the beginning, it was bound to him as a cannon fodder slapping the face system, but later the system became disordered and became the good dad system. In fact, this was not accidental.

In the first reincarnation, he became the father of the ninth life, but he failed in the next life, so when the new reincarnation started, his identity changed to a son. Other people's stepping stones implicated his ninth generation Lao Tzu.

It's not good to be a father, and it's not good to be a son. There is cause and effect.

So when it first binds him, there will be confusion. If you want to correct the second reincarnation, you must first reset the previous reincarnation, and you have his current experience.

"Ding—system upgrade, your loyal cannon fodder face-slapping system is always at your service!"

With the same voice, everything seems to be back to the beginning.

"Start the next world!"

Su Aobai's eyes gradually became firmer, and the new story will continue!

The author has something to say:

Something happened in real life. The man who had not fulfilled his duty to support me since elementary school owed a lot of money. The creditor directly found me and my mother. Not everyone is qualified to be a parent. I grew up so old. He is the source of all the misfortunes in my life. It’s a bit ironic. What I’m writing now is the story of a scumbag father. I really don’t understand. After doing these things, he still has the face to pretend to be a good father to ask me about my recent recovery. How about it, hehe, someday the cancer must be due to him, it’s too painful, my mother told me not to think about these things, but I couldn’t do it, I had to take medicine for a long time to fall asleep, my hair One by one, he made me completely disappointed in marriage, but my mother, who has suffered a lot, and so many elders with unhappy marriages around me, still think that getting married and having children is the most important thing, I can't do it at all. Understand and don't want to understand.

Now that this matter has been basically settled, I hate that the law makes me have to give him a pension in the future, but I am also glad that the law can at least protect the rights and interests of my mother and me. His debt has nothing to do with us, and I will definitely not help him pay it off. Money, I’m ready to go to the property notarization, if something happens to me and I designate my mother as the sole heir, or if one day I die, I will get half of the inheritance from him, and I may climb out of the grave.

I really advise everyone to be cautious when looking for a partner, and even more cautious when having children. Family misfortune and childhood misfortune will shape a person's negative character very hard to get rid of.

I hope that the two worlds I wrote at the end did not substitute my aversion to the identity of my father during this time. I still respect the identity of my father, but I just happen to be unlucky and have never had it.

I'm sorry for the readers who followed the article, the status has been adjusted now, and the other book will be finished as soon as possible, sorry.

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