Chapter 98 What Ruoer said is true
She looked like she was going to cry or not, which was very pitiful, but Wei Ruo just smiled and explained calmly:
"Sister Qingwan doesn't have to think so. Sister Qingwan's temper is naturally good as a lady of the family. She is gentle and pleasant, kind, caring and sensible. But just because you have a good temper doesn't mean you are suitable to teach your younger brother. Brother Yilin is stubborn and likes to be taught. What is needed is strict discipline, not blindly caring and pampering."
Immediately afterwards, Wei Ruo turned his head to Wei Mingting and said, "Father, you are busy with official duties, and your mother has no time to spare because of the affairs of the mansion. The most people who get along with brother Yilin in the mansion is sister Qingwan, but now brother Yilin's temper is not good for you, father." You see. I said this not to say that sister Qingwan is not good, but that she is really not suitable for teaching brother Yilin."
Wei Qingwan's hands in the sleeves were clenched into fists, and her face turned pale visibly.
Wei Yilin finally couldn't help it anymore: "Sister Wanwan is not wrong, sister Wanwan is not incompetent!"
"Shut up." Wei Mingting cut off Wei Yilin's words with a cold reprimand.
At this moment, he has no right to speak.
Wei Yilin's fussy and dependent appearance on Wei Qingwan made Wei Mingting feel that the eldest daughter's worries were justified.
After our Wei family became a general, his son had no ambitions, behaved arrogantly and did not know the rules, and was very dependent on his sisters at home. How could he become a great weapon?
Wei Qingwan's heart trembled, her fingers pinched the hem of her skirt, she had the urge to speak, but she didn't have the courage to speak at this time, so she could only press her lips together tightly.
After Wei Yilin stopped drinking, Wei Mingting carefully looked at the eldest daughter in front of him, pondered for a while and said: "Ruoer, continue to talk."
"My daughter thinks that I should find a master of martial arts for my younger brother Yilin, and teach Kung Fu carefully and strictly. As a man of the Wei family, if he can't succeed in writing, he should follow in the footsteps of his father and take the road of martial arts. Don't waste time and cultivate He looks like he has lost both civil and military skills."
Wei Ruo's words are convincing, and his analysis is well-founded.
After pondering for a while, Wei Mingting nodded, "Ruoer's words are reasonable. Some things are neglected by my father, but Ruoer sees them clearly. Now I will do what you said, Ruoer. From today on, you are not allowed to Yi Lin sets foot in Wangmei Garden again, and Yi Lin is not allowed to run around in the mansion in his spare time, and Wanwan is not allowed to go to Yu Yu Garden to visit Yi Lin privately. I will also find someone to make arrangements for the master who teaches martial arts as soon as possible."
Wei Mingting made a decision, Wei Yilin was hit hard, his legs were trembling and he couldn't stand, he staggered and fell to the ground.
Wei Qingwan hurriedly stepped forward to help her, her eyes full of concern.
Wei Yilin threw himself into Wei Qingwan's arms aggrievedly and cried: "Sister, I don't want to be separated from you, and I don't want to learn martial arts, sister..."
"Brother is not afraid, dad is doing it for your own good." Wei Qingwan hurriedly comforted her, her expression distressed and anxious.
Wei Mingting didn't make a sound beside him. Originally, he didn't notice the problem at this level. Now after the eldest daughter said something, and seeing the second daughter's care and love for the younger brother, his brows could not help but frown.
When he was at home, his strict demands on his youngest son always had no effect. The older the younger son was, the less he would be disciplined. Perhaps the root cause was here.
"Wanwan, go back to Meiyuan first." Wei Mingting said with a serious expression.
She braced her body and slowly straightened up: "Yes, daughter...retire..."
Wei Qingwan slowly walked out of Cangyun Garden step by step, and when she came to the door, she looked back reluctantly, as if she was leaving not only Cangyun Garden, but this home.
Looking at the three people in the courtyard, Wei Qingwan felt for the first time that she was an outsider...
Wei Mingting's original intention of letting Wei Qingwan leave was just that he felt that his second daughter was too soft-hearted, and she would comfort her brother softly when he suffered a little bit, so it would be inconvenient for him to teach the child.
So after Wei Qingwan left, Wei Mingting punished Wei Yilin to chop firewood, allowing him to experience the daily hardships of ordinary people. Yesterday's punishment made his legs tremble and he could not stand still, but his hands were fine, which did not affect his chopping firewood.
"Ruo'er, first look at Yilin for your father, and go talk to your mother about something for your father." Wei Mingting said to Wei Ruo.
"Okay." Wei Ruo agreed.
Then Wei Ruo showed a sly smile at Wei Yilin from an angle that Wei Mingting couldn't see.
Wei Yilin still had tears on his face, staring at Wei Ruo blankly with red eyes, speechless.
Then Wei Mingting went back to the house and told Yun that he wanted to find a martial arts master for Wei Yilin.
"Why did Husband suddenly remember to let Yilin learn martial arts?" Yun asked.
"It was Ruo'er who reminded me that Yilin's current temper has already been spoiled. He doesn't read books well and acts recklessly. Today he can go out of the house privately and has no respect for his elders. I don't know what shocking things he can do tomorrow. When it comes to things, if we don’t strictly discipline them, it will eventually become a disaster for our Wei family. And practicing martial arts is a good way of discipline.”
"What my husband said is that this matter is also the responsibility of the concubine. It is the concubine who failed to discipline the child well." Yun lowered her head in shame.
"I can't blame you entirely. After coming to Xingshan County, you have to take care of all the big and small affairs of the mansion, and you are really busy. Now that I think about it, Wanwan's temperament is too weak after all. As the saying goes, a loving mother often loses her son. Using the older sister to teach the younger brother instead of the mother is too loving and indulgent, and the result is the same."
"I will talk to Wanwan about this matter later, so that she can correct this problem and be stricter with my younger brother." Yun said hastily.
"No need, I have ordered that their siblings are not allowed to communicate in private for the time being. If there is a need in the future, let Ruo'er come. Compared with Wanwan's weakness, Ruo'er's temperament is more suitable for teaching younger brothers." Wei Mingting said.
Wearing this, Yun was shocked, she didn't expect that her husband would not allow Wanwan and Yilin to communicate in private, and the person closest to Yilin is Wanwan, not even her as a mother.
"So...will it hurt Yilin and Wanwan's hearts?" Yun was a little worried.
"In Yilin's situation, he must suffer a lot to know what he can do and what he can't do. If he still cares about his mood at this time, how can he teach well? As for Wanwan, she is a sensible person. I also told her cause and effect, so I must understand the reason and not think too much." Wei Mingting said.
"My husband is right."
When Wei Mingting said this, the Yun family had no objection.
Wei Mingting couldn't help but sigh with emotion: "You and I discussed making Wanwan the eldest daughter of the family. We only left the position of eldest daughter to Ruoer because we were worried that Ruo'er didn't know the rules and it would be difficult for him to be the eldest daughter. It was because of his father's request. It's still my father who has the foresight, Ruo'er is indeed more suitable to be the eldest daughter, she acts decisively, is calm in situations, and can take care of the overall situation."
(end of this chapter)