Chapter 290 No one can convince anyone
"Is there any conflict between the two? The Xu family is a famous family. When you married in the past, you were the eldest daughter-in-law of the Xu family. What kind of status will you have in the future? Isn't this a good thing for you? My mother wants you to marry A good family, is there anything wrong?"
Yun felt a little exhausted: "I think about you, I want you to live well, why do you always think that mother is hurting you? You are a piece of meat that fell from mother, even if you didn't live together in the first thirteen years, Mother will not harm you!"
"Mother, marrying a wealthy family is not what I want. If my mother really thinks about me, please help me refuse this marriage. I just want to be an ordinary person and marry a farmer in the future. .” Wei Ruo replied.
"It's a bunch of nonsense!" Yun said angrily, "It's fine if you don't have a choice. Now that you have such a great opportunity in front of you, why do you still have such useless thoughts?"
Wei Ruo was silent, she didn't agree with Yun's opinion, but it was also difficult for her to make Yun agree with her.
Despite living in this world for more than ten years, the modern female thinking in her heart has not changed.
She still believes that her value should not be tied to marriage or to a certain person.
She is her, she has to live on her own.
It is difficult for Yun, who lives in this world, to understand these thoughts. In her eyes, the ultimate destination of a woman is to marry, to be a husband and to raise children.
Seeing Wei Ruo's silence, Yun's persuasion was earnest: "Ruo'er, you have lived in the countryside for more than ten years, lacked discipline, and read less books. At first, mother was worried about your marriage after you came back. Your father discussed that if you are not worthy of a high-ranking family, then your father and I will buy you more dowry, so that even if you marry a poor scholar, you will be safe for the rest of your life."
"But since there is a better choice, my mother will naturally plan for you. No matter how you look at it from the Xu family, it is a good marriage! You are still young and don't understand many things, but you believe in your mother. , as a woman's husband is all you can rely on and rely on."
Wei Ruo still didn't speak, because it was impossible for her to tell Yun's plan, even the nanny and Xiumei who had been by her side couldn't accept her plan.
Seeing that Wei Ruo no longer stubbornly talked back to him, Yun said: "Mother doesn't need you to give me an answer right away, you should go back and think about this matter first."
After finishing speaking, Yun's face looked exhausted, and he waved his hand, asking Cuiping to send Wei Ruo back.
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The matter between Wei Ruo and Xu's family had already begun, but today's visit by Mrs. Tongzhi still made everyone in Wangmei Garden grit their silver teeth.
Nurse Li said angrily: "What does Mrs. Tongzhi think? What good can Wei Qingruo do? She is really blindfolded! She thinks she is a piece of jade in the rough!"
Cui He hurriedly persuaded her old lady: "Mother, stop talking, don't let people listen to it, and then punish you to go to Zhuangzi."
Hearing that the punishment was sent to Zhuangzi, Nanny Li's voice softened, but she still said unwillingly: "This Wei Qingruo is just pretending well, running around the fields all day long, and has been touched by so many vulgar men, how can he be a fool?" Got the eldest daughter-in-law of a wealthy family? The Xu family just didn't know about it, if they knew, how could they want her?"
Cui He said: "That's something that can't be helped. Everyone in the house is helping to hide it. It's related to the reputation of the Wei family. If the eldest lady's reputation is damaged, our second lady will not be able to please her. It's even more difficult for the second young lady to marry high."
The mother and daughter muttered for a while, and Wei Qingwan came back from Cangyun Garden.
Nurse Li rushed up to greet her: "Second Miss, is Mrs. Tong Zhi really going to marry us in the Wei Mansion?"
"I just heard from my mother, and it's true." Wei Qingwan looked calm, and there was no trace of displeasure or melancholy on her face.
"Second Miss, aren't you angry? How can the Eldest Miss be worthy of the Xu Family's Eldest Young Master with her character?" Li Momo asked.
"Whether you can match is something that the Xu family should consider. As a sister in the family, I should bless you." Wei Qingwan said.
"Miss, do you have something to hide from us?" Nanny Li asked cautiously.
"It's nothing." Wei Qingwan looked away, avoiding Nanny Li's probing eyes.
Immediately afterwards, Wei Qingwan didn't give Madam Li a chance to continue questioning, and chased people away: "If there is nothing else, you should step back first, I am going to rest."
Nanny Li and Cui He had no choice but to leave the room full of doubts.
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Early the next morning, Wei Ruo, who was supposed to go to Tianqin Garden, went straight to Sibaozhai.
Wei Ruo walked through Sibaozhai's shop and went to the backyard to find the nanny. The nanny was keeping accounts. When she saw Wei Ruo, she quickly put down her work.
"Miss, why are you here?" Although surprised, the nanny's eyes were full of surprise.
"Every time I come to the nanny, I always ask, do you not welcome me?" Wei Ruo said intentionally.
"Nothing!" The nanny said hurriedly.
Xiumei laughed at the side: "How can the nanny not welcome the young lady, but she is afraid that the young lady will be tired from running back and forth."
"Xiumei still understands me." The nanny said with a smile.
"Nurse, I came to you today to ask you something."
"Miss, you ask."
"How did you find the person I wrote to you to ask you to help me find?"
Hearing that, the nanny's eyes dodged, and then she turned her face away, not daring to look directly at Wei Ruo.
Wei Ruo's face darkened: "Nurse, have you not looked for it?"
"No...no...I..."
"Nurse, you never lie to me." Wei Ruo stared into the eyes of the nanny.
The nanny will do her best to help her deal with the things she told the nanny in the past, without delay or perfunctory.
Only this time, it has been a long time and there is no news.
Seeing that she couldn't avoid it, the nurse had no choice but to say frankly: "I'm sorry Miss, I really didn't bother to inquire about it. I really don't want Miss to just find someone to marry, and she is still a dying person. How could I do such a thing! "
Wei Ruo sighed: "Forget it, I will handle this matter myself."
Wei Ruo decided not to embarrass the nanny anymore, even if the nanny really helped her find her, and when she saw her become a widow, the nanny might feel that she had harmed her and would blame herself for the rest of her life.
Hearing this, the nanny said sadly: "Miss, have you really thought about it?"
Wei Ruo said firmly: "Nurse, I have indeed made up my mind. I know that my thoughts are shocking to many people, but I want to live the life I want, and this is a feasible way."
(end of this chapter)